Getting your buddies to stop trying to hook you up requires that you let them know that you aren’t ready, nor willing to hook up or get into a relationship with anyone, and show that in your behavior.

There is a part of you that remains stuck on your last relationship.

You haven’t let it go.

Additionally, you yearn for a relationship from time to time, and your friends sense this.

You are acting like you are waiting on something to happen to you, and as a result, you are absent-minded at times or you look like you aren’t really happy.

Your friends are getting one or more of these vibes from you.

As a result, they tend to try to hook you up because they believe that this is what you want.

After all, you haven’t quite been yourself in a while.

They figure that something is bothering you.

As your friends, they want to try to make you happy.

They believe that they know what is best for you at this time.

So, they try to hook you up.

Getting your buddies to stop trying to hook you up calls for you to demonstrate that you are happy through your actions, and you are living the life you want to live.

They shouldn’t feel like you are no longer who you once were.

They shouldn’t get the impression that you are not trying to live the kind of life that they believe you deserve.

If you were to live a rich life filled with activities that you love and you showed them that you were happy, they would be more prone to avoid attempting to hook you up.

They would know that you were already happy and busy doing what you love in life.

This means that you can’t only tell your friends to stop trying to hook you up but you have to show them that you are happy in your life.

They need to get the sense that you are living the life you want.

Filling your life with fun activities sends them a strong sign that you are happy.

When you dwell on a past relationship, they are driven to hook you up so that you can move on.

They are observing your behavior and what you say.

When you constantly talk about relationships, they feel obligated to hook you up believing that this is what you want.

This is why you should watch what you say and consequently how you behave.

Avoid going to places with them where there are too many opportunities to hook up on a regular basis.

This removes the constant temptation to hook you up.

This means that reduces the amount of club partying or general partying you do with them does you favors.

Replace some of that time with doing fun activities, such as going on hikes or bike rides together.

In other words, avoid constantly putting yourself in a hookup environment when they are with you.