She enjoyed the conversation that you were both having but didn’t feel any real romantic connection.
There wasn’t much chemistry or you weren’t her type.
Asking why you asked for her number is reflective of an absence of romantic interest in you.
There is also a probability she wasn’t quite sure what your intention was.
Perhaps she wanted to be clear.
Perhaps she didn’t want to assume that you were romantically interested in her prematurely or erroneously.
She wanted to know for certain what your intentions were, so that she could see whether those intentions were similar to her own.
There are times a person can have a conversation with a girl and she doesn’t quite know what direction or angle that person is coming from.
It’s possible she was interested in you romantically, but the topics you talked about during the conversation had no romantic undertones.
She asks you why you asked for her number, wanting to confirm that you are both on the same page.
Once her mind is clear about what your real intention is, she knows where your mind is.
If this girl ultimately ended up not giving you her number, she didn’t feel a romantic connection with you.
As I mentioned earlier, she didn’t look at you as her type, physically.
It isn’t something that you should dwell on.
Many people have a type.
Beauty and attraction are subjective.
You weren’t her type, but another girl thinks the opposite.
You should allow yourself to move on and keep your sense of dignity.
On the flip side, if this girl gave you her number, there is a good chance that she is interested.
She is slightly confused about what it is you are looking for.
If you weren’t really clear about why you were asking for her number, she remains somewhat unsure.
It’s important that you contact her as soon as you can and ask her out on a date.
This is crucial.
The longer you wait to contact her, the more she feels like you were looking for something other than romance.
Remember that she is slightly confused about what your intentions are.
In not calling her as soon as you can and asking her out on a date, she puts you in a category in her mind that has nothing to do with romance.
This means that even if you were to call or text her a week or so later, she is no longer in a romantic frame of mind.
She would have already put you in a category as someone who is either not interested in romance or not entirely enthused about it.
A girl doesn’t want to feel this way about a guy who is courting her.
She wants to have no doubt in her mind that she is wanted and desired in a romantic sense.
Contact her as soon as possible and ask her out on a date to keep her interest.
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