Text her a message that relates to her dating profile on the dating website, and be specific.

In seeing a photo that caught your attention, text her a message inquiring about it.

Relate to her photo by telling her that you have had a similar experience or planning to.

The goal of the text should be to make her feel comfortable and assured in the fact that you actually read her dating profile.

There are loads of guys who send generic messages to girls for the first time on dating websites that only tell her about how amazing she is or give her a boring greeting.

Some guys even copy and paste their messages so that they don’t have to do much work individualizing each one.

This makes all their messages look generic and obviously similar.

Girls can tell when a guy hasn’t put in much effort in sending her a message.

This is a turn off that makes the girl ignore your text or message.

A girl on a dating website has far more men sending her messages than the regular guy does.

She has a lot more options to consider.

A generic message is easier for her to ignore and move on to her other messages.

Personalize your message to her so that she comprehends that you truly read her dating profile.

Use her name when you send her a message.

Some dating websites allow and encourage their members to use their first names on their dating profiles.

Being on one of those dating websites, make sure you use her name when you text or send her a message.

If you aren’t on one of those dating websites, use whatever username that is shown for her.

This continues the process in personalizing the message to her so that she feels like you are giving her special attention and you truly read her dating profile.

Text or send a girl an icebreaker question on the dating website.

Icebreaker questions are useful in opening up conversation with a girl for the first time on a dating website.

The helpful thing about them is that they can be about anything and have any theme.

Make it a hypothetical icebreaker that asks a hypothetical question.

Make it humorous or more personal.

A good way to tell which kind of icebreaker to use is to take clues from her dating profile.

In noticing that she talks a lot about her love for her family, ask her an icebreaker question about family.

Clearly, family is important to her and this is a big part of her life.

An example of a fun icebreaker question that relates to family is something like this –

“Who would you most compare your family to – The Cosby Family, The Flintstones or The Addams Family?”

That is an icebreaker question that breaks the ice and makes her think.

It loosens her up, making her feel that you have taken a legitimate interest in her.

Using an icebreaker question that relates to her dating profile makes her take your message seriously, compelling her to send you a response.

It helps to open up an interesting conversation.

This is what icebreakers are for.