The majority of women prefer social and outgoing guys when it comes to who they are attracted to and want to date.

Many of them don’t like sensing insecurity in a guy.

This gives women the impression that the guy isn’t sure about himself.

They don’t want to be around a guy like that.

A guy who is insecure makes them feel unhappy and down.

A girl doesn’t want to be around that kind of energy.

She wants to be around a guy that makes her feel good and energized.

She likes to be around a guy who is exciting, showing her a good time.

An insecure guy gives her the impression that she would have to do a lot of work to get him out of his mental sense of insecurity.

That being said, some women do like shy guys.

They don’t necessarily like the fact that he is shy.

They just happen to like something about the guy.

They like the guy despite the fact that he is shy.

They start trying to figure out a way to get him to notice them and make a move.

They wonder about what they should do to just let the shy guy know that it is alright to move in.

They like the shy guy in spite of his shyness.

A really confident girl bypasses trying to send the shy guy romantic signals through body language and just approaches him directly.

This is where the shy guy becomes his own worst enemy.

If he doesn’t respond to her in a way that makes her want to talk to him even more, he loses her.

She has made that all important first step, but the shy guy isn’t as engaging as she would have hoped.

The shy guy has no conversational skills.

She loses her sense of curiosity and interest and leaves the shy guy be.

Most girls aren’t this bold.

They send signals in his direction, hoping that he picks up on them and makes a move.

If you are a shy guy, you should look out for these signals from girls.

They make eye contact.

Some of them smile or take it away the moment the eye contact is established, only to bring it back again.

Some girls play with their hair repeatedly as they stare in your direction.

A girl who’s interested finds ways to make physical contact by brushing past you a few times.

Look for these cues.

As I mentioned earlier, a few girls have the courage to initiate conversation with you but most won’t.

You have to be aware of what a girl doing in order to get your attention so that you can respond.

Being insecure, recognize that your uniqueness is a big part of what makes you who you are.

You should embrace that uniqueness.

Do not make assumptions about yourself in reference to your looks or temperament.

Do not put yourself down.

It is these internal stories that we tell ourselves that tends to make us insecure.

Don’t focus on those. Focus on the positive and what makes you feel good about yourself.

This helps to build your sense of self-worth so that you are no longer insecure.