If she says she is busy, she is not interested in dating you.
Being busy is one of the most common excuses used when a person doesn’t truly want to date another.
It is easy to use because it allows the person the opportunity to have a clear conscience.
Indeed, she may truly be busy.
She may have work, school, family, projects and so on to deal with.
However, aren’t we all busy?
If you truly wanted to, you could fill up your to-do roster with activities today.
You could put in that extra time at work or with family and friends.
We could do all that quite easily. However, what we normally tend to do is make time.
We make time to do whatever we feel needs to be done.
If she truly cared about dating you, she would make time for you.
That is how it works. We make time for the things we believe are important to us.
This is how we handle our priorities and give them the due attention they deserve.
I know that you may feel like she is being genuine in what she is saying.
Like I mentioned earlier, she may be telling the truth.
She may indeed be busy.
However, if she was truly interested in you, she would make the time for you.
She would do what she could to ensure that she spent some time with you.
She would want to see you more.
Even if she knows that she wouldn’t be able to see you as much as she would like, she would still want to see you.
She would do what she could to make that possible.
When she repeatedly tells you that she is busy, you are not a priority in her life.
You are not even really a curiosity.
A curiosity would make her want to take action, not give excuses.
You have to start being honest with yourself.
No matter how badly you want her, she has to want you too in order for this to work.
If she keeps saying that she is busy, she is not showing true interest.
There have to be moments where she can spare the time to be with you.
There have to be moments where she can invite you to meet her to do something even if she wouldn’t be able to do it for long.
These are real signs that she is truly interested and though she may have a busy schedule, she is finding the time to do stuff with you.
She may not be able to do it for long but she still brings herself to the occasion in person.
Unfortunately, the problem a lot of guys face when they are in this situation is the misconception that she may like them because she still communicates with them.
The girl may still be communicating or responding to your texts because she wants to.
She sees no harm in it.
She may not mind your pleasant or interesting discussions. However, she still isn’t taking it any further than that.
She continues to say that she is busy.
You have already heard her tell you this often enough that you are even beginning to expect her to say that every time you try to set a date with her.
This is evidence enough of her disinterest in you and you shouldn’t allow yourself to be misled.
Move on to someone else.
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