If she doesn’t know you that well or like you in particular, she may honestly not even notice or care.
Distancing yourself from her may put you out of mind.
If you are out of mind, you aren’t part of her daily experience.
You are not going to be in her line of sight. Hence, she may simply forget you.
I don’t think that this is the kind of effect you are trying to have on her.
Distancing yourself may honestly not be the right approach.
What you could do instead is continue to interact with her.
However, you don’t have to let her in on everything.
You should give her just enough of your personality to leave her wanting more.
Instead of distancing yourself, you can give her the impression that you are quite active in your social life.
When she gets this kind of impression, she may wonder about you.
She may begin to desire more time with you.
You would appear to be an exciting and adventurous person to be with.
She wouldn’t entirely know what to expect with you.
This can be really thrilling to a girl.
This can make a girl feel like you are a catch.
A catch is someone that is relatively hard to get because they simply have good things going for them.
They have a full life that is social and multidimensional.
They don’t sit around waiting for life to happen to them.
They make life happen and happen in abundance.
Girls love it when they know that they are around a guy who won’t make them bored.
They feel that sense of excitement and intense desire to get to know more about that guy.
They want to be around him.
They want to be a part of his adventures. Hence, distancing yourself may actually backfire on you.
As I mentioned earlier, a better strategy would be to keep on interacting with her but give her the impression that you are someone who is constantly on the move.
This perception is beneficial to you.
She should feel like you are someone who is not too easily available.
Give her some anecdotes of your busy social life.
Tell her fun stories about your fun friends and adventures that you have had with them in the past.
Tell her about some of the things you are intent on doing in the near future and you have already planned out.
This could be a hiking trip that you already have planned out that is coming up in a week.
It could be a trip to another state’s theme park that you already have planned out and checked on your calendar.
It could be a friend’s birthday that you are going to in a fortnight.
It could be a concert that is coming to town soon that you are going to be attending with a friend.
When she hears this often from you, she will know that your life is fun and busy.
It is social and filled with activities.
This kind of impression that you leave with her will have a much stronger effect than simply being distant.
Remember, the goal here is to get her to want you, not forget you.
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