Becoming physically attractive to girls has a lot to do with your mindset.
Being happy within is the first step.
Develop an appreciation for your uniqueness, despite your flaws.
This requires a focus on your best qualities.
Your intelligence, sense of humor, wit, artistic talents, technical talents, etc.
Repeatedly appreciating your best qualities gives you a much healthier outlook on yourself as a person.
You come to love yourself.
Once you have come to a great level of appreciation for yourself as an individual, ask yourself about what you need to work on.
What is it about your physicality that has you feeling unattractive to girls?
Do you believe that you are too thin or overweight?
Figure out the reasons why you believe you aren’t physically attractive to girls.
Once you have come to terms with them, what do you want to do about it?
Do you want to make a change for yourself to be the best possible version of you?
Then, do it.
Don’t do it strictly to attract girls.
Do it for you first and foremost.
Effect change in your physicality.
Meet a desire to combat being too overweight or too thin by exercising.
Exercising to effect a change to your physicality requires long-term commitment.
When your intent to make these changes are solely based on attracting girls, you won’t persist.
After a few days or weeks, you give up.
Once you aren’t getting the attention you were hoping for from girls within the first few days or weeks, you fall off and quit.
Doing it primarily for yourself increases the odds you stick with it.
Exercising over a sustained period of time and being disciplined about what you eat is a lifestyle change.
Sticking with it over time guarantees positive results.
Your life changes.
People look at you differently.
Your confidence is at a high.
Girls look at you as physically attractive and are drawn to your physique and the confidence you exude.
Improving your physique makes you physically attractive to girls, but so does how you dress.
Girls like it when a guy knows how to dress and present himself.
Update your wardrobe.
Ask a girl friend or a sister to go shopping with you, and have her pick out new clothing for you that she likes and believes appeals to girls.
Look up guy fashion magazines for further direction in dressing the part.
How you dress influences your level of physical attractiveness.
Dressing well boosts your confidence.
Clothing that fits your body right accentuates their appeal.
Beyond exercising and dressing well, working on your grooming positively effects your physical attractiveness to girls.
Have clean nails and a well-groomed face.
Keep your beard tidy.
Same goes for your hair.
Wear good cologne, but don’t overdo its application.
Cologne compliments your body chemistry, inspiring the release of your natural pheromones.
Not every cologne works for everyone.
Test some out and get the opinion of your female friends or family members.
Go with their recommendations on what smells right on you for your body chemistry.
A guy who is well-groomed gives the impression that you are someone who takes pride in yourself.
To her, you are self-assured and immensely appealing.
Here they come for you.
A swarm of girls are making a beeline for you, enchanted by your physical attractiveness.
Be careful what you wish for.