Should I Keep Trying To Win Her Over Or Wait?

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Should I Keep Trying To Win Her Over Or Wait?

If she has been responding to your advances, keep trying to win her over.

If she has responded to your texts and kept the conversation going, she may be worth continuing to try to win over.

If she has shown interest in getting to know more about you, keep trying to win her over.

There should be a manner in which you study how you’ve been interacting with her.

A girl will typically give you signs of romantic interest to indicate that she is genuinely interested in you.

She may look at you often and touch you from time to time.

She may laugh wholeheartedly at your jokes.

She may listen to you intently and ask you follow up questions.

She may remember minor details in past conversations and ask you to elaborate on them in future conversations.

She may compliment you often to make you feel good about yourself.

When she is doing all these things, she is showing that she is interested in you.

She is wanting this process to continue because she is responding to it in a positive way.

However, if you notice that she has been very hard to get a hold of or communication has been very lackluster, she may not be worth your time.

When she doesn’t ask you much about yourself, there is a problem.

When she always seems to be too busy to hang out or go on a date, there is a problem.

When she tends to keep your conversations very short, there is a problem.

If you have experienced any of these, there is a good chance that she is not interested.

At times, it can be hard to tell.

There may be moments when you think that she is interested because she seems to be responding.

However, those moments don’t last very long because she starts acting distant again.

This is a girl that is playing hot and cold.

You will constantly be asking questions about what her genuine intentions are.

If you don’t have the patience for this kind of game, stop trying to win her over or even wait.

You may put yourself in a very frustrating position if you don’t have the patience to play along.

A girl that is playing hot and cold is also no guarantee of success.

You would be in a tough situation because you may simply be a pawn.

There are some girls who simply love the game and may not necessarily be romantically interested in the guy.

They play hot and cold because they know that it will leave the guy wanting more.

They know that playing hot and cold puts them in a power position.

Once they have gotten their fill, they may discount you simply because they have gotten bored.

You need to be careful.

If this girl is playing hot and cold, you may end up empty-handed with a broken heart.

Keep trying if she is responding. Otherwise, you may want to consider going after someone else.

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4 thoughts on “Should I Keep Trying To Win Her Over Or Wait?”

  1. Same is happening to me.

    Been texting this girl, making out on nights out, lots of positive interaction, been told she likes me etc etc. Chasing has been done on both sides, il pulled back a bit and she went after me.

    I go to ask her out again because she told me she really wants to but get radio silent treatment. Feel powerless at the minute, she has made that decision. I don’t want to seem affected yet its virtually impossible not to be after seeing her consistently for around 6 weeks

    Very confusing and off putting. I work in a very high status job at a club where she goes, so I can do my bit to go after other girls and make her jealous, its difficult though because I have started to like her. Is the only thing to do is pull back?

    Good website man, very helpful and informative

  2. Hi Matt,

    Yes, you should pull back.

    She has made her decision and you have to respect that.

    You don’t have to try to make her jealous by talking to other girls at the club. That will only make you more and more emotionally invested in this.

    Just move on and allow yourself to start meeting other girls because you want to and not because you are trying to make her jealous.

  3. So I’ve been seeing this girl for a few weeks now…she one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen, and has a personality that matches mine. She even said she likes me a lot. We were pretty steady hanging out meeting eachothers parents, and then all of a sudden she has no interest… I tried talking about it and it’s just went from short reply small talk to not wanting anything to do with at all. Should I probably just get over it and start moving forward or see if I can try again?

  4. Hi Clay,

    You should get over it.

    You already tried talking about it and she showed no real interest in keeping the conversation going with you.

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