Looks don’t compensate for horrible approach skills when those horrible approach skills persist.
Most girls are definitely visually stimulated by looks.
This is where you are at a great advantage.
Your looks become a major factor upon first impression.
When your approach is horrible, she forgives that for a while, but eventually, she wants extra.
Your looks grab her interest initially but when you don’t excite her by how you talk to her, she loses interest.
She likes stimulating conversation that seduces her.
Horrible approach skills aren’t insurmountable.
There a few things you aren’t doing right.
Once you overcome the missteps, approaching women is a cinch.
Upon approaching, your first intention must be to make her feel comfortable.
A girl loves feeling safe.
When she feels safe, it opens her up to giving you a chance to impress her or entice her.
It’s easy to make her feel comfortable.
Make her laugh.
Laughter releases the neurotransmitter dopamine in the brain which destresses the body and makes her feel good.
This is instant comfort.
Wait, you aren’t that funny a guy?
Make her feel comfortable by finding something in common in conversation to relate to her with.
Finding something in common between you, gives her a sense of calm and a reason to pay attention to what you have to say.
Find something in common and use that as an opener.
Wait, you are worried that you have nothing in common with her?
Use her body language as a means to relate to her.
When her body language is giving off a bored aura, you have a conversation opener for your approach.
Tell her that she looks just as bored as you are.
She gestures in agreement.
There is your connection.
From here you find out more about her.
What does she think about X store nearby?
Where did she buy her amazing bracelet?
What are her plans for the rest of her day?
As you relate to her and crack a joke or two, you are opening her up.
Girls absolutely love to laugh and love guys that makes them laugh.
Relate to her, then infuse some humor into your conversation and you are already impressing her, giving yourself the best shot of keeping her interest.
As aforementioned, your looks help, but horrible approach skills have to improve.
Your looks grabs her intention initially, but when your approach is weak and the conversation is poor, she is losing interest.
As much as girls do love good looks in guys, they equally love being mentally stimulated.
It is a combination of these two that makes a girl want to be with a guy and go out with him.
She wants you to give her a reason to want you and unfortunately, in most circumstances, good looks aren’t enough.
Do you make her laugh?
Do you intrigue her?
Do you inspire her to learn further about you?
Applying the right approach answers these questions and wins her over.
A girl wants to be visually and mentally stimulated by the guy she dates.
This is how most girls think and operate when it comes to romance.
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