Be comfortable and confident in yourself first and foremost, regardless of your flaws and idiosyncrasies.
Accept who you are.
People prefer dating those who like themselves and are totally at ease with who they are.
As a shy guy, believing that never dating is best for you, is your sign that there is something about you that you don’t accept.
When you don’t like yourself, this attitude permeates into whatever you do.
You give off that aura of being someone who is not happy with life or with who they are.
Being shy is no excuse to not love yourself and consider yourself a catch.
Consider how you think and how you view yourself.
In seeing yourself as a catch, others see it too.
They see it because you walk around with confidence.
You make more eye contact with people and fill your life with activities that make you happy.
Become a person that they want to date.
Think about this for a moment.
What type of person would you like to date?
Think about what they look like and what their behavior is like.
Think about how they make you feel when you are around them.
Envision this in your mind as viscerally as possible.
Now, imagine that person that you have envisioned is you.
Exactly, the person that you have just thought about is you.
How they made you feel in your vision is how you make them feel.
How they look in your vision is how you see yourself.
You are visually appealing too.
How they carry themselves in your vision is how you carry yourself.
By doing this exercise, you have reflected on who your ideal mate is and mirrored them.
This is the person you aspire to be like.
As a shy guy who wants to date, you have got to embody the qualities of the person that you saw in your vision.
The person in your vision wasn’t sad, unsure of who they were, uncomfortable or lacking in confidence.
Realize that being a shy guy doesn’t mean that no girl has an interest in dating you.
A shy guy appeals to a girl when she gets the sense that he is comfortable in his own skin and has a lot of things going for him.
You have goals, ambition and a personality.
These are amazing qualities that many girls are attracted to, regardless of your shy nature.
Show these attractive sides to who you are.
This is how you accept yourself and show girls several other windows into who you are as a person.
Being a shy guy doesn’t relegate you to never dating someone.
Your identity is so much bigger than your shy nature.
This is self-defeatist.
This mindset hurts you and robs girls of a shot at experiencing the real you.
Be comfortable with yourself and aspire to be the person you saw in your vision.
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