Yes, texting a guy after a date is okay.
In fact, this is a very good move.
It allows the guy to know for certain that you had a good time.
This alone could be what he needs to encourage him to ask you out on another date.
Oftentimes, guys will go on a date with a girl and not know how it truly went.
Sure, the girl may have told them that they had a good time but that may not have been the truth.
Girls typically don’t like confrontation.
They may go on a date that they absolutely loathed and would still tell the guy that they had a good time simply because they don’t want a confrontation.
Many guys know this.
Hence, you should understand that by texting him after the date in an environment that is away from the date, you are sending him the message that you aren’t one of those girls.
You truly did have a good time at the date.
You want him to feel really confident about this so that he feels compelled to ask you out again.
When he receives that text, he gets the confirmation he needs that you truly did enjoy the date.
Your text should be short though. Keep it short, concise and to the point.
Tell him how much you enjoyed the date and that you are looking forward to seeing him again.
Leave it at that.
He will get the picture and will know what to do next.
If he was the one who initially asked you out, he wants to pursue you, so let him.
Just give him the hints he needs in order to keep the process moving forward.
Girls often make the mistake of thinking guys can read their minds.
They go on a date, show no real signs of attraction, leave and expect the guy to contact them asking for a second date.
They may have actually been into the guy but they simply didn’t show much of it during the date.
If you are this kind of girl, it is paramount that you send a text. Again, the vibe that he may have gotten from you during the date may have been that of a lack of interest.
In his mind, he may have believed that you didn’t like him or enjoy the date.
But you did.
You simply were either too shy to show it or just slightly uncomfortable.
Sending him a text after the date is so important in situations like this.
The text actually confirms to him that you actually enjoyed the date.
Don’t allow yourself to get caught up worrying about what he would think if you sent him a text.
This is where many girls talk themselves out of doing this.
They simply surmise that he should be the one to text if he truly liked them.
Again, do understand that he may have gotten the wrong impression about your level of interest during the date.
If you didn’t show him much in your body language, he may have surmised that you didn’t like him.
This text would change all that.
So, yes, it is okay to send a text after the date.
Keep it short.
In it, ensure that you leave him with a solid impression that you want more.
This is what really helps in encouraging him that the date went well.
This way, he may feel that there is momentum and thereby he should keep up with the effort in trying to see you more often.
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