Height does matter to ladies.
When asked, their ideal guy is tall.
Now, this doesn’t mean that ladies aren’t interested in guys who aren’t tall.
A guy who is so insecure about his short height is a bigger turn off to women than his short height.
Don’t be this guy.
Women love confidence above everything.
Many guys around you are shorter than you and they are getting girls.
Take a look around the next time you go out.
How many shorter guys do you see with girlfriends?
You see quite a lot.
The problem is not all about height.
Yes, a taller guy is ideal to most women but this is not the only measurement women use to judge whether they want to date a guy or not.
Think about it like this.
What criteria do you have for women?
What physical attributes do you want in a woman?
Now, think about all those physical attributes and ask yourself whether you forego some of them upon meeting a lady who so happens to connect with you romantically on a high level.
The answer is yes.
Let’s say that you like women with blonde hair.
You gravitate to such women.
One day, a brunette talks to you and she is funny and charismatic.
She has so many enjoyable behavioral characteristics.
You find her completely compelling.
What do you think you are going to do then?
Do you think that you get rid of her and not pursue anything further because she didn’t meet your criteria of being a blonde?
The reality is, you consider her other attributes and tell yourself that she is quite a catch and that brunettes aren’t so bad after all.
You push your mind in the direction of pursuing romance with her, motivated by the connection you both had.
Women are not all one note, as many don’t judge a guy by only his height and ignore all of his other qualities.
Yes, there are some who do but you probably don’t want those women anyhow.
You want a woman who is multifaceted in her tastes.
A woman who is hung up on one trait is tough to get along with.
She is one of those that expects what she wants when she wants and this behavior isn’t conducive to a healthy relationship.
Focus your energy on those women who have a broader criteria for the men that they like.
Height is valued, but it isn’t their everything, as they show an openness to other qualities.
This is the woman you want and is worth striving for.
You do need to show them that you are comfortable in your own skin.
Worrying about whether your height is acceptable to women is an indication of your lack self-love and this pushes women away.
Love yourself and they love you.
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