Well, are you? If your girlfriend thinks that you are a lazy bum, you just might be a lazy bum.
It’s important to understand your worth.
How do you value your worth in this relationship and within yourself?
Some guys get into relationships and stop.
They stop being an achiever or a driven person because they now have the girl.
This is a massive mistake.
You cannot get complacent in a relationship. If anything, this is when the real work begins.
You have to stay on top of things and ensure that you are moving the relationship forward.
One of the biggest killers of relationships is the lazy bum disease.
Yep, it really is one.
It literally saps a relationship of all of its health and energy just like a disease does to the body.
You can’t allow yourself to be a lazy bum.
For a moment, try to recall how you would attempt to impress your girlfriend when you were first courting her?
What was that like?
Do you remember the energy and spark you had?
Well, you have to reclaim that.
When a girlfriend starts calling you a lazy bum, you have to take note.
She is essentially dropping clues to how she feels at this point.
She may not belabor the issue at first but rest assured that the complaints will increase.
What then happens is she begins to lose respect for you.
She begins to see you as inferior.
You are almost like a child that she has to keep correcting and pushing.
Once you start looking like a child that she has to be constantly yapping at because they aren’t behaving right, you start losing her love.
If you are a lazy bum, change that.
Start doing something constructive with your life.
Open yourself up to new possibilities and start taking risks.
Show your girlfriend that she is still special to you by taking her out and showing her a good time.
Make her start feeling like there is more to you than just being lazy.
She should see your depth of character and want to learn more.
Become interesting again. Put out an effort to make your world busy and interesting.
These are all qualities that will win back the respect of your girlfriend.
You can’t rest on your laurels and take this relationship for granted.
There is no such thing as a guaranteed relationship.
Relationships take work.
As mentioned earlier, it is actually a lot more work to keep a relationship going than trying to get into one.
Your task is to begin today to work on being a productive partner within this relationship.
Start taking the initiative to do things without having your girlfriend tell you to do it first.
If you tend to leave stuff lying around the house, pick them up.
If you tend to leave dirty dishes in the sink, wash them.
If you tend to let the hedges and grass on your lawn grow for weeks until they are unsightly, start cutting them on a regular basis.
If all you do is play video games or watch TV most days, start doing something more constructive with your time.
Also, if you have allowed relationships with friends, family and acquaintances to falter, renew them.
Many guys get into romantic relationships and allow their other relationships to weaken.
They stop working on them.
They just stay with girlfriend and are happy there.
Your girlfriend also wants to see that you take the time to continue cultivating other relationships outside of the one that you have with her.
This makes you more balanced in her eyes and she would have more respect for you.
If you want to maintain a healthy, happy relationship that lasts, stop being the lazy bum.