You should tell her that you like her and would like to take her out.
It is really that simple.
Guys tend to over-complicate and over-analyze when it comes to this.
The truth is, there is nothing to over-complicate or over-analyze.
It is a simple show of interest and a request for a date.
When you are clear about your intentions, it is easier for her to give you the right response.
There are a lot of guys who really mess this up.
They dance around the subject.
They may try to hang out with her and bring their friends as cover.
They may begin conversations that remain in very safe territory and never goes further into flirting or simply stating their intention.
All this does is seriously confuse or frustrate the girl.
Girls like guys who are real and brave.
They like guys that are not afraid to tell them how they feel about them.
This allows the girl to start setting her own expectations in her mind.
Does she like you the same way?
Are you someone she can see herself dating?
Does she feel any physical and mental chemistry with you?
The girl is able to begin to assess how she actually feels about you.
Since she knows your intentions, she can put you in the column of romantic possibilities in her mind instead of the the dreaded friend zone.
Yes, that dreaded friend zone.
This is where a lot of guys end up when they are not honest and upfront with their intentions.
They think that by simply being friends with the girl that one day it will all change to romance.
This couldn’t be further from the truth.
The truth is that, as mentioned earlier, when you aren’t clear about your intentions with a girl, she will more than likely put you in a column.
If she were to initially like you in a romantic sense but you weren’t making any aggressive moves towards her, she may begin to believe that all that you want is a friendship.
As a result, she will put you in that friend column.
This means that her mind has now moved on from the original interest into a place of simply looking at you as a friend.
If you were to finally step up in the future and tell her that you liked her, she would most likely tell you that she only liked you as a friend.
This was a girl that had originally liked you in a romantic sense but because you weren’t upfront with your intentions and decided to try the friends-first route, she lost that interest and moved on mentally.
Again, this is the unfortunate occurrence that takes guys from the realm of romantic possibilities with the girls they like, into the friend zone.
Unfortunately, once you are in the friend zone with a girl, it is very difficult to get out.
Hence, you should cast all fear and doubt from your mind right now about letting her know that you like her and asking her out on a date.
It would be much worse if you played it safe and found yourself where so many guys before you have landed, in the dreaded friend zone.
Tell her you like her and ask her out. The sooner you do this the better.
This way, you don’t get stuck overthinking this.
Don’t go overboard or deluge her with compliments and poems of your undying love for her.
Just keep it simple and real.
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