They will come back based on how they feel emotionally and the circumstances that they are in at the time.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that it has anything to do with true love.
It could just be that they reach a point where they get lonely.
This may lead them to reflect on their lives and consequently decide to make a move on a past relationship partner.
The danger here is that when you start believing that true love will bring them back, you will start living your life accordingly.
You won’t really move forward with your life because you will be waiting on them.
Everything that you do will have some bearing on what you think will happen in the future with this person.
Hence, you may put plans on hold.
You tell yourself that the reason why you are putting these plans on hold is so as to experience said plans with this person that you hope will come back.
You essentially become a shell of the person you should be because you are simply not living.
Your life should be moving forward and not be on pause.
There are no guarantees that this person who you believe has true love for you will come back.
As mentioned earlier, a lot of this has to do with emotion and circumstances.
Many exes end up getting back together and many don’t.
Even those who do get back together often go through a lot of relationship issues because they never resolved the problems that they had in their past relationship.
Also, you have to try to come to terms with what you consider to be true love.
Was it really true love or were they simply infatuated with you?
Was it really true love or did they just enjoy your company and felt like the both of you had chemistry?
Your interpretation of what true love is may not have been what this other person felt.
This is where people go wrong.
They draw upon what they believe true love to be and apply it to that person.
On the other hand, that person may have a totally different perception of what true love is and to them, they may not have felt it with you.
Again, there are many ex couples who get back together at some point in time.
However, your life shouldn’t be predicated on the “what if.” You should be moving forward with your life and be engaging in meeting new people.
Right now, there are a lot of things that you could be doing to improve your chances at love.
Meeting new people is one.
But also learning more about yourself and growing as a person.
The more refined and interesting you make your life, the more likely you will attract the right person into it.
If that right person so happens to be the one you believe you had true love with, so be it.
But again, there are no guarantees and oftentimes, the circumstances have to be just right for that person to come back into your life.
It is important that you don’t sit around waiting.
You should continue living a full and rich life. Remain social.
Thereby, you are always putting yourself in a position where you could find the love of your life even if it may not be the one from your past.
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