They come back based on how they feel emotionally and the circumstances that they are in at the time.
Coming back isn’t a rock solid sign that it was true love.
People get lonely.
This leads them to reflect on their lives and consequently decide to make a move on a past relationship partner.
True love isn’t what brought them back.
In this case, they came back out of circumstance.
The danger here is that when you believe that true love is the sole reason why they are bound to come back to you, you put your life on hold.
You don’t move forward with your life, as you wait for them to come back.
Everything that you do has some bearing on what you think happens in the future with this person.
You justify why you are holding off on future plans by convincing yourself that you have to wait for them to come back to have these experiences together.
A shell of the person you once were is who you evolve into, and you are not living, merely existing.
There are no guarantees that this person comes back.
Occasionally, some exes get back together, and are misguided in their intention.
When they get back together, some are hoping to reignite the passion they once had with their partner.
They are obsessed with getting this feeling back, not having experienced it with anyone they have dated since.
Inevitably, that passion is long gone and no matter what you both do, it isn’t reignited.
The relationship has run its course and didn’t warrant a return.
Unfortunately, yet another heartbreaking breakup ensues.
This is when people come back based on emotion.
Reconsider what you believe true love is.
Was it true love or someone infatuated with you?
Was it true love or someone who enjoyed your company and the chemistry shared?
Your interpretation of what true love is doesn’t always correlate.
This is where people go wrong.
What are the odds this person has a totally different perception of what true love is and to them, they didn’t feel it with you?
While you wait for him to come back, your mind continues to dwell on the, “What if?”
Meanwhile, this person has moved on and dating someone new.
The love you crave is attainable, but you won’t have a shot at it without accepting the loss of this person and moving forward with your life intent on meeting new people.
Life is a journey.
Learn and grow as a person along the path.
Partake in new and interesting activities, as you build your life up socially.
The more refined and interesting you make your life, the more likely you attract the right person into it.
At the right time and place, here is a golden chance at true love with someone new.
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