If a random girl asks you on a date and you find her intriguing, you should say yes.
Understand that this is simply a date and nothing more.
If you get so carried away in the idea that a random girl asked you out on a date, you could be reading way too much into this.
There is nothing wrong or strange about a random girl asking you out on a date.
If this is your first, accept it.
Where guys go wrong is when they think that somehow this was all wrong.
Why would some random girl ask them out on a date? Isn’t it supposed to be the other way around?
Is something wrong with this random girl that she felt the need to do a guy’s job of asking out?
So many questions can start entering your mind at a very rapid pace.
You shouldn’t get carried away by thinking too much.
As mentioned earlier, it is just a date.
She didn’t ask you to be the father of her babies.
Don’t get carried away.
If you cannot handle the fact that a random girl asked you out, you may need to consider your level of confidence.
Yes, your level of confidence.
How comfortable do you feel with yourself?
Are you sure of you and what you are about?
Do you take pride in being you from day to day?
Truly think about this.
If you take pride in you, why wouldn’t you believe that a random girl could see that quality in you and be drawn to it?
Indeed, if you find this odd that this random girl asked you out, you may not understand how attraction works.
Many girls find guys attractive.
Though they may not always act on it, they still feel it.
Those who are brave enough to act on it should be commended, not looked at as strange or desperate.
If you truly value yourself, you will understand why she made this move and you will accept it.
That would be the most prudent way to understand and deal with this.
Remember that by asking you out, she is actually putting herself at risk of being rejected.
Girls are often worried about getting rejected if they were to make the first move.
The fact that she is actually taking this risk does show that she holds you in high regard and felt that it was worth the risk to try.
She may have tried to convince herself not to but ended up asking you out anyway because she just didn’t want the opportunity to pass her by.
This is your chance to reward her courage and accept her offer if indeed you have some interest in her.
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