If you’re 25 years old and you have never had a girlfriend or had sex, you should take a look at your life and ask yourself why that is.
There could be a number of reasons that you simply either haven’t come to terms with or you are misidentifying as something else.
If your desire is to have a girlfriend, what exactly have you done in your 25 years of life to reach that end?
It is highly unlikely that you will get a girlfriend if you simply stay home most days.
Is that what you do?
You need to start being honest with yourself and allow your mind to question your past actions in a way that will make you see your multiple errors.
When was the last time you went out to a social event?
How often do you do that?
Do you find yourself constantly turning friends down to go out because you have perhaps been rejected in the past and just don’t want to put yourself in that position?
You will need to take a hard look at your life and what you have been doing.
This has to be an honest look.
More than likely, at 25 years old, you have never had a girlfriend or had sex due to a combination of social and mental factors.
It wouldn’t be surprising to notice that you have stayed safe.
You have remained in your little bubble and refused to change it.
The famous German physicist Albert Einstein once said, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.”
This couldn’t be more true in your situation.
You have to take a good look at your life and start making proactive changes.
A girlfriend and sex doesn’t happen without some effort on your part.
You have to become more social and go to places you typically don’t go to and just be willing to take that chance.
Open yourself up to meeting new circles of friends that could possibly introduce you to new girls.
Change your mindset from that of defeatist to that of a winner.
You have to see that you are worth it and that you can do this.
If you have been rejected in the past, you need to move on from that and realize that not every girl is going to like you.
However, if you keep trying, you will eventually meet one that will.
At 25 years of life, you are in the prime of your life.
The power to change is entirely in your hands.
If you make these changes, you will get a girlfriend, have sex and not feel so pathetic anymore.
Lamenting never gets you very far.
At some point, it becomes all about the lament and never about the solution.
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