How Do You Get Over Someone That You Never Dated?

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How Do You Get Over Someone That You Never Dated?A good way to get over someone that you never dated is to realize that this person may not have been the right one for you.

It is easy to get caught up in the scenarios that you created in your head.

You see that person and all you can think about is how amazing they are because you can’t help but feel good about them.

You start thinking about how the both of you would have so much fun together.

You start thinking about your conversations and how cozy it would have been to be in each other arms.

The truth is, you really don’t know how this person would have been if you both were in a relationship.

You can speculate but you don’t really know.

You have constructed the perfect utopia in your mind of what this relationship would have been like but that was just a fantasy.

This person may have been abusive towards you.

They may have anger, jealousy or insecurity issues.

The point is, this person may never have been your utopia.

It is so much easier to create a fantasy in our mind of the person you like and make it be the best ever.

Fantasy is a safe haven.

It is so much easier to make all the pieces perfectly fit together when it is all a fantasy that you are creating.

True life itself can be very different.

True life itself can be harsh.

When you are trying to get over this person that you never dated, think about the fact that you do not know whether the both of you would have had any real chemistry.

You also don’t know this person’s history in relationships.

How many failed relationships have they been in and why did they end?

They could have had some bad past relationship experiences.

This could have really affected them in a negative way.

The point is, there is no perfect individual.

It is easy to get carried away with the belief that this is the right person for you.

You do not see this person’s possible flaws because in your fantasy, they are the perfect mate.

When you allow yourself to wake up from your dream, you will be able to get over this person that you never dated because you will realize that you never really knew them to begin with.

Understanding the true nature of your reality will help to give you clarity.

It can be hard to come back to reality when you have made this person out to be so much more in your mind.

It may be hard to let go of all those thoughts and emotions that got you excited about this person in the first place.

However, by understanding that your mind is ultimately what really got you emotionally invested in this person and not your actual experience with said person, you will be able to get over this person that you never dated.

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