If you found out the girl you like has a crush on someone else and you are wondering what you should do, you should let this one go.
Yes, that means move on.
A lot of times, a guy will get into a scenario like this and think that somehow he has to win her over.
That natural desire for victory over someone else comes into play. It really is a waste of time in a situation like this. Her heart and mind at this moment belongs to someone else. It is yearning for someone else and you are not in the picture.
Your objective should be to take whatever energy you have at the moment and invest it in finding someone else. You are not her crush for a reason.
You have never made a real move on her and now you have to deal with the dour consequences of not being proactive.
Here is where you learn a life lesson.
When you like someone and they are available, you shouldn’t waste any time.
You should make a move before someone else gets in the picture and robs you of your price.
How many times did you try to talk to your crush in the past? Once, twice, never? How often did you talk yourself out of it? How many times did you watch her walk across the room and look away instead of starting a conversation with her.
Well, that ship has sailed.
At least for now.
Again, this is a life lesson. It is actually to your benefit.
You get to learn the importance of being proactive so that you will not make this mistake again in the future.
Yes, a bitter pill to swallow but no one said life was fair.
You should move on from this. Stop daydreaming about her. Start living a life of courage and purpose. Keep a look out for the next girl that may catch your eye.
If you see her today, tomorrow, next week, whenever, go up to her and talk.
Yes, talk. Get a conversation going.
This is your next challenge. You move on from here and not look back.
This crush may have been what you wanted but there will be others.
It can be easy to get so caught up in believing that this crush would have been the best possible partner for you.
However, that isn’t always the case. Opening your mind to other romantic prospects would serve you well.
Thereby, you don’t keep expending precious energy and time on a crush that doesn’t like you back.
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