How To Write Secret Admirer Notes And What To Say

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How To Write Secret Admirer Notes And What To SayTo write secret admirer notes, you should ensure that you stick to what you know.

Sometimes, people make the mistake of writing stuff that they didn’t come up with originally.

They may get quotes from famous poets or writings from obscure philosophers. Anything taken, that is essentially not of your creation, is a bad idea.

It makes your secret admirer notes appear fake and forced.

Even if you think that there is no way this person you admire will know, think otherwise.

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There is that handy piece of media called the internet.

You will unfortunately be discovered and it could ruin any chances you may of had with her.

Your secret admirer note should be original.

Think of something that really makes you happy.

It could be a piece of artwork, part of nature, your family, your hobby, etc.

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Now, take it and create a note from it.

You should write it in a way that ties in with your secret crush.

You describe an element of that which you love and relate your secret crush to it.

Doing this right can be very effective.

In other words, if you love the look of daffodils, write something in relation to daffodils while comparing your secret crush to it in a creative way.

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Obviously, ensure that you don’t compare them to something atrocious.

Hence, if you’re a big lover of Horror movies like “Saw” for instance, you may want to steer clear from comparing your secret crush to Jigsaw.

That’s the way you write a note to your secret admirer.

Keep it short, nothing longer than a short paragraph of no more than 5 to 6 lines maximum.

You should ensure that your grammar is accurate.

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Hence, do spell-check before you deliver it.

If you follow these rules, you will deliver the best secret admirer note you possibly can.

Always keep track of your notes so that you don’t repeat them.

Each secret admirer note should be different in terms of theme.

Doing that enables you to keep the process interesting.

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As long as the process remains interesting, the person that you admire will look forward to your notes.

The more anticipation they have for each note, the more emotionally invested they will become in whoever is writing them.

That bodes well for you.

010By Luke Iwuji, a dating coach and founder of DatingLogic.net. For the best professional dating or relationship advice, Book a Session with me.