Well, are you? If your girlfriend thinks that you are a lazy bum, you just might be a lazy bum.
It’s important to understand your worth. How do you value your worth in this relationship and within yourself?
Some guys get into relationships and stop.
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You should think about it very carefully.
If you were to get back with this someone, what are the chances that they will betray your trust again?
Human beings are truly creatures of habit. We tend to do what makes us comfortable and go back to it again and again.
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You should tell her that you like her and would like to take her out. It is really that simple.
Guys tend to over-complicate and over-analyze when it comes to this. The truth is, there is nothing to over-complicate or over-analyze.
It is a simple show of interest and a request for a date. When you are clear about your intentions, it is easier for her to give you the right response.
There are a lot of guys who really mess this up. They dance around the subject.
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He may try to have sex with you if that is how he feels that the night has been going and if you haven’t set expectations.
If you haven’t set expectations as to why you are sleeping over and what you intend to do with him while there, he may feel that this would be an opportunity to have sex.
Also, it really depends on how far the both of you have gone in this relationship.
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One thing you shouldn’t be doing is spending every waking moment wondering if there is a chance of him being interested again.
The truth is, when a guy is truly interested in you, he will make moves.
He will make solid attempts to date you and court you.
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People like to feel like they are part of the norm.
Feeling like you are part of the norm can be very comforting.
As human beings, we are programmed by society to believe that as long as we are doing what others are doing, we are normal.
Hence, there is a need for acceptance.
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To an extent, yes.
If your girlfriend were to ask you questions about your past relationships that were relatively harmless, answering those questions is the right thing to do.
If you were to keep refusing to talk about anything concerning your past relationships, she may think you are hiding something.
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We tend to show our true emotions to the people we love because we are comfortable with them.
We just are. We know those people well and they know us.
There is a feeling of security when we show our true emotions to the people we love.
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It is often very easy to fall into a certain rhythm when you are in a relationship. That rhythm tends to be a strong appreciation of the highs and a strong disingenuity with the lows.
In other words, you get so caught up in wanting everything to be so fine and cool, you convince yourself that there will be no lows.
You convince yourself that there will be no disagreements.
Hence, when those disagreements occur, which ultimately leads to arguing, there is no fix.
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You should let your girlfriend know that her words hurt you. This isn’t one of those situations where you should simply grin and bare it. Doing that will only exacerbate the situation.
When she argues with you, she may be trying to gain an upper-hand in the relationship. She may feel like this is the best way for her to feel better about herself.
This is even more likely if those arguments tend to be based off very frivolous things.
When she seemingly argues over just about anything, she is really trying to dominate the relationship.
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