So, my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and have broken up and gotten back together a few times. He usually initiates the breaking up and then regrets it later, he makes very rash decisions. This time, I had his computer and went through his Facebook and contacts, not maliciously, I’m just nosy. He viewed it as a breach of trust (which I can see) and is furious with me. We talked it out and he stated that he has no hope for our relationship. I asked him to give it a week of us not communicating and then we would decide. We both love each other very much, but how long will it take for him to come to terms? Or are we done for good?