They may be the guys that you currently have as your guy friends.
Several of them may be waiting on the wings hoping that one day you notice them and give them a chance.
Take a good hard look at some of your guy friends.
It is best to be comfortable and confident in yourself first and foremost.
You have to be comfortable in your own skin.
You have to understand that people like to date others who seem like they like themselves and are totally at ease with who they are.
This is important.
If you are thinking that you as a shy guy shouldn’t date, it may be because you haven’t fully accepted yourself.
Most guys in your age bracket wouldn’t.
In the end, guys simply want to be with someone that they are attracted to who also happens to love them.
Guys are quite simple in this aspect.
Your problem arises when you try to read too much into why guys do what they do or what they expect.
When you do this, you will jeopardize your chances with guys because you would be focused on how much you don’t meet this or that expectation.
It is not unusual to find yourself in a relationship with someone who has a fear of intimacy. You may think that this is something unusual or that for whatever reason, you are to blame for this.
The truth is, there are lots of people who get into relationships with people who have a fear of intimacy.
You may be doing something wrong that makes him insecure if you are always trying to appease him or do too much in the relationship.
Some people who get into relationships can become overbearing. They will do all they can to make their partner feel good as though it were their mission.
The truth is, when people are so concerned about making their partner feel good, they forget about themselves.