Category Archives: First & Second Dates

I Like His Personality But I’m Not Physically Attracted. Should I Go On A Date With Him?

No.

If you like his personality but you aren’t physically attracted to him, you would find it difficult to want to be with him as a romantic partner.

In essence, you have been around him enough to know how you feel about him as a person. You do like his personality.

However, there is still that persistent issue about attraction. You are still not physically attracted to him.

It is unlikely that this will change simply because you go on a date with him.

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Ask To Take Her To Dinner And A Movie?

If this is the first time you are going out on a date with her, it’s best to keep it simple.

Meeting her for coffee or lunch would typically work best for this occasion.

If she is someone that you don’t know all that well, this approach for your date would be the best idea because it relieves the both of you from undue pressure.

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When Meeting Someone For The First Time, Would You Rather Go Get A Cup Of Coffee Or A Drink?

A cup of coffee is typically the best place to start.

It enables the both of you to be clear-headed enough to communicate and thereby avoid getting yourselves into a situation that may embarrass you or ruin the date.

Getting a drink can happen later, after you have both gotten better acquainted and you feel a level of comfort with each other.

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Is It A Good Thing To Keep Texting After A First Date Or Annoying? How To Not Appear Too Needy Or Too Eager?

It honestly depends on how the both of you have been getting along.

If you really hit it off on that first date and this person is always willing to communicate, texting constantly after that first date may be fine and not annoying at all.

This is most appropriate when both parties are initiating the texts equally.

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First 2 Dates Went Great. Now He’s Gone Cold.

He may have gone cold after the first two dates because he has lost interest in you.

He may have enjoyed your company but realized that the kind of connection he is looking for isn’t really there.

There may be a part of him that really believed that the connection he had with you during those two dates were sufficient.

However, at some point in time after the second date, he may have began to doubt that.

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How Long After A Good Second Date Do You Wait To Contact The Girl?

How Long After A Good Second Date Do You Wait To Contact The Girl?You should contact the girl on the day of or the next day and ask for a third date.

Don’t make the mistake of believing that you should wait for days or even a week or more to contact the girl.

So many guys fall prey to this mistake because they believe that if they were to ask the girl for a third date too soon they may come off as desperate and thereby turn the girl off.

This really has no basis in truth.

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