In the event this is the first time you are going out on a date with her , the best approach is to keep it simple.
Meeting her for coffee or lunch works best for this occasion.
If she is someone that you don’t know all that well, this is an approach that relieves undue pressure from either one of you.
The mistake in instantly asking her to dinner and a movie , is in how this automatically indicates that you are expecting to invest a sizable amount of time on this date.
There is now an undue pressure on either party, as they wonder whether this is going to end up being a really long night if they don’t get along during the date.
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There are guys who regularly message you , but never end up asking you out on an official date.
The intent behind the regular messaging has to do with figuring you out.
He wants to ascertain whether there is romantic chemistry , or whether he is getting a platonic vibe.
Basically, he is holding back.
This means that you haven’t had that mind-blowing effect on him yet.
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When you want to invite her for a coffee , do so without overthinking it, or making too much of it in your mind.
Overthinking makes you talk yourself out of inviting her for a coffee.
Inviting her for a coffee by asking her to do so in a succinct and clear fashion is the proper approach.
Guys who are unsure of themselves talk too much before getting to the invite.
Talking too much before getting to the invite builds up your anxiety that much more.
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Sadly, this is what happens when you wait too long to make a move on a girl you like.
When you give in to your fears and assumptions by not making a move on a girl you like, you lose out on her.
She now has a boyfriend and that golden opportunity to make a move on her has passed you by.
This is why you shouldn’t waste time thinking things through when you like a girl.
Even if she is showing signs that she is interested in you, she only waits on you to make a move on her for so long.
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Well, you shouldn’t overdo it when it comes to asking a girl to hang out with you.
If you have asked her to hang out several times in the last few days, this is too overbearing to her.
She does have a life you know.
She wants to have the time to do a variety of activities in her life.
Temper your excitement when it comes to wanting to hang out with her.
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