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Why Do People Feel Like Because Something Goes On Or Doesn’t Go On In Another Person’s Relationship, It Should Be The Same For Them?

Why Do People Feel Like Because Something Goes On Or Doesn't Go On In Another Person's Relationship, It Should Be The Same For Them?People like to feel like they are part of the norm.

Feeling like you are part of the norm can be very comforting.

As human beings, we are programmed by society to believe that as long as we are doing what others are doing, we are normal.

Hence, there is a need for acceptance.

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Why Is Everything So Fine And Cool Between Us One Day, Then The Next Day, We’re Arguing?

Why Is Everything So Fine And Cool Between Us One Day, Then The Next Day, We're Arguing?It is often very easy to fall into a certain rhythm when you are in a relationship. That rhythm tends to be a strong appreciation of the highs and a strong disingenuity with the lows.

In other words, you get so caught up in wanting everything to be so fine and cool, you convince yourself that there will be no lows.

You convince yourself that there will be no disagreements.

Hence, when those disagreements occur, which ultimately leads to arguing, there is no fix.

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My Girlfriend Hurts Me With Her Words And Argues

My Girlfriend Hurts Me With Her Words And ArguesYou should let your girlfriend know that her words hurt you. This isn’t one of those situations where you should simply grin and bare it. Doing that will only exacerbate the situation.

When she argues with you, she may be trying to gain an upper-hand in the relationship. She may feel like this is the best way for her to feel better about herself.

This is even more likely if those arguments tend to be based off very frivolous things.

When she seemingly argues over just about anything, she is really trying to dominate the relationship.

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Is She Cheating Or What?

Is She Cheating Or What?There are reasons why you may suspect that she is cheating.

The first step in trying to figure this out is to ask yourself why you suspect that she is cheating in the first place.

In other words, what particular acts or events led you to believe this. It is very important to do this because you must eliminate anything that is based out of emotional unhappiness.

The emotional unhappiness typically occurs when you start feeling insecure about your influence in the relationship. This often occurs when you feel like the relationship is not headed in the right direction.

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Is Ignoring A Female Friend That Rejected You But Still Likes You, Okay?

Is Ignoring A Female Friend That Rejected You But Still Likes You, Okay?You should come to terms with the kind of relationship you want to have.

Do you still want a relationship of some kind with her or not?

If all you are doing is ignoring her without any real idea of what you want, you may be wasting time.

If you still like her and feel like she likes you, the onus is on her to make a move. You have already made a move and she rejected you.

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What Does It Mean When Your Future Mother-In-Law Observes You?

What Does It Mean When Your Future Mother-In-Law Observes You?Your future mother-in-law may be observing you because she wants to get a better sense of your demeanor and mannerisms. Oftentimes, she watches for similarities that you both may have.

She may watch for how you go about doing chores about the house or how you go about communicating with her son and other family members. She may be trying to see herself in you.

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