The best way to know if his words are sincere would be to observe his actions and his history.
If he has shown through his actions that he is serious about what he is saying, there is genuine cause to believe that he is being sincere.
Perhaps he is telling you about how much he cares about you.
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Though, undoubtedly, this scenario does come with risks.
Now, I understand that you have a genuine sense of fear and worry about the fact that he is a guy.
Your mind instantly goes to all kinds of scenarios.
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A cup of coffee is typically the best place to start.
It enables the both of you to be clear-headed enough to communicate and thereby avoid getting yourselves into a situation that may embarrass you or ruin the date.
Getting a drink can happen later, after you have both gotten better acquainted and you feel a level of comfort with each other.
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He may have always been a jerk but you never really allowed yourself to see it.
You may have been so caught up in his looks or in how he made you feel that you never allowed yourself to see the signs.
You never allowed yourself to acknowledge that moment that he was rude to his friend or that he swore at a driver who casually entered his lane while signalling.
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If he is rushing into a relationship, there may be a number of things that he is trying to avoid.
For one, he may be worried that you will lose interest quickly and move on to another guy. This means that he doesn’t have much confidence in himself and his ability to keep you interested.
If you were to get into a relationship with him, he would ultimately bore you or get you to the point where you feel like he gives you no reason to get excited about the relationship.
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A change of seasons can make a lot of people feel more attractive.
It is not only about how their physical appearance may change with the season but also how they change mentally.
A person may love a season so much that their entire mindset changes as well as how they look at the world.
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There isn’t, as long as you are honest about the fact that you aren’t interested and you don’t lead her on.
You are attracted to who you are attracted to. You know what you like.
It would be much worse if you hadn’t rejected her and started dating her only to break her heart later because you chose to date her out of pity or convenience.
You are the judge of your own character and what it is that makes you attracted to a girl. She is in charge of her own feelings and how she looks at herself.
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Your ex may keep calling you, but what are you doing in response to that?
Are you answering those calls?
If you are, there may be a part of you that still wants to be with your ex. This is where you really have to be honest with yourself about how you really feel about your ex in comparison to your current boyfriend.
If you are answering those calls from your ex, why are you?
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He may be telling you that you are the brightest part of his day.
When he tells you that his day has gotten nicer talking to you, he may be trying to get you to see that you mean a lot to him.
He may actually think of you on a daily basis.
He knows that he loves talking to you.
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Your best bet in this scenario is not to act like you have messed it up.
If you get so caught up in believing that you have messed it up, you may begin to act in a way that could jeopardize the relationship.
The truth is, you really don’t know if you have messed it up or not. You are simply making an assumption based on something that may have recently happened.
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