relationship consultant, relationship coach, dating coach, dating expert Hi, I’m Luke and thanks for visiting Dating Logic.

I created this website to help you better navigate through the sometimes murky waters of dating and relationships.

I have a degree in Communications and for the last several years I have helped thousands of people including over 50,000 subscribers on Youtube get answers and solutions to their dating and relationship issues.

The information on this website is extensive because I wanted to address as many of these issues as I could so that people like yourself would be able to have a resource to guide you.

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  1. I would really like to email you personally my question about my situation.. Kinda shy and don’t want to have all my business on a web page. Any way I can?

  2. Hi Luke,

    Just wanted to say I love watching your YouTube videos. I’m a 37 year old female and still completely confused about men but your advice has helped me a lot. I wish I had had someone give me the great advice you give back when I was a teenager! Keep up the good work.

    Best regards,


  3. Hi HD,

    I am glad that you love watching the YouTube videos and that the advice has helped you a lot.

    Life is a learning experience.

    As long as you are willing to learn and adapt, your chances of having a happy dating and relationship life increase tremendously.

  4. Hi Peter,


    I hope that you continue to apply what you have learned from the YouTube videos and keep growing for the better in your dating and relationship life.

  5. I think you are very attractive,I like your accent,and you give great advice .thank you Like keep up the Great work.?

  6. Bro, you are the real deal. I usually don’t watch/read relationship based videos or blogs because they be corny but yours are very mature and wise. Keep up the good work!

  7. Hi Luke,
    My name is Vera and I work privately as a psychologist. I am directed mostly towards couples therapy .

    Seeing your videos i was impressed by the fact, that more or less in one minute and using a calm, warm, plain, uplifting and direct way , you made clear and understandable gender differences and the way for a man and a woman to communicate more effectively.

    So it was like saying the truth is right in front of you , it is not complicated and dont waste your mind and emotion energy trying to find hidden truths and complicated meanings behind his/her actions and words.
    You answered valuable questions, including overlooked details that no psychology text book i know, would have included.

    My impression was that what you say, you practice in your everyday life… so it was not only the content of your words but the authentic way, you said it.

    I would like to say a thank you and hope you continue evolving and inspiring us with your thesis, as to what is important when two human beings come across in life !

  8. Hi Vera,

    Thank you for your kind words.

    You are absolutely right.

    Sometimes we make things more complicated than they really are. Sometimes the answer is right there in front of us if only we are willing to accept it.

    Accepting it is typically the hard part.

  9. Dear Luke,

    Thank you for your advice. I have watched countless videos on YouTube made by you and must say, they are all inspiring. Your wisdom and knowledge in each topic has allowed me to heal each day. I refer to coming across your work as ‘a divine encounter’. You tell the truth that most men won’t, and you seem to cater to hurting women. I appreciate your gift, and look forward to watching more of your ministry unfold through truth.

    May God continue to bless and keep you

  10. Greetings Luke, you definitely have a gift to articulate the situation very well; I like the way you try to keep a positive spin on any given situation. The videos are excellant. Now I no longer have to keep bugging my friends with relationship advice, I can tune into your videos.

  11. Hi Luke,

    Thank you for your uplifting and transparent videos that helps bring clarity to wondering minds. Your videos are awesome!
    Ok so here is my question and or thought: I’m very attracted to this guy and I’m starting to like him as well. I believe he likes me because he keeps staring and smiling, making jokes to make me laugh. I mean its like I have his undivided attention when I visit his place of worship and other people are noticing it too but the setting makes it difficult to have an intimate or more private encounter for him to ask me out?? What’s your advice??

  12. Hi Luke,
    First of all thank you for guiding and supporting all the needers here. Thank you much, it is a blessing indeed.
    I will try to keep it short. We belong to south India, belonging to different states, languages, cultural follow up, same religion.
    I met my best half from previous working place. Sooner we developed close relationship, we had taken it to families at same time they
    were fixing other match for me. My father got into some surgery, and it was all utilized to black mail me. But he was so supportive
    through chats, I was like almost house arrest for 15days. Somehow the other marriage got called off and we we both started to
    become more confident about our relationship growing.
    His side, his mom was a cancer patient and was not accepting for us, coz of age, state difference. (am 32, he is 28).
    Also she was little connected with his ex too, and could not immediately accept this. He lost his father during school days,
    he loves his mom very much. We tried we will get legally registered married, but since it would hurt his mom
    I respected that all the time, even though we(I) fight we calm off. He is very patient in handling and truly lovable.
    Now it has been close to 4yrs our relation, we moved to different city 2 yrs ago coz of job change.
    We started to live-in no to miss our life util families agree. I used to feel insecure or shame by the way localites and
    neighbors would think of us. Coz live-in is not much common here, mostly Indian traditional follows of marriage and relationship
    is always based on elders approval or elders choice. He would understand me and help me in overcoming certain fears.
    I was relaxed only when he met my father asking for traditional processes to take it to next level.
    He also noted that difference and was happy atlast he was able to make an attempt to proceed for next level.
    My father is not much ok, but my mother, sisters were all ok for me to chose and live happy in life I wanted.
    Finally his mom agreed when she was nearing her last days of treatments in vein. Exactly it was 1yr back that she accepted for us,
    and started the traditional marriage process. She collapsed and fell serious with lung failure.
    After so much chaos, I, one of my married sister and mom traveled to meet his mother at hosiptal and offer respect,
    as we know it is the ending time for her. His relatives knowing or unknowingly made use of the chance and started
    to ask us to proceed with marriage when his mom was almost half dying. If I was not ready, to fullfill his mother wish to
    see him married. His side people were ready to give their daughters. My mother has clearly stated that according to his
    tradition we are ready to wait, this is painful moment and all needs to take care of the dying mother. We started back to our place,
    2 days later he pinged me that his mom died and rituals have been performed.
    I too have age old parents, I did not have anyone to accompany me to visit them. I cant travel alone, as it will call disrespect
    to him, me, the family and in general the way of brought up. Because it is not that easy for people to welcome just a single arrived
    girl in the society here. He also advice me not to come alone, as he cant handle problem if his relatives fall on me. For they were
    angry that the marriage did not happen. I also say him that we must marry first to unite the families, instead of waiting or trying
    hard to make people undestand. I also say him that it is not disrespect to anyone of them, it is only that both sides have diferent people
    with different perceptions. It is hard to unite them first and start our lives. But his point is always families are first important.
    After such incidents, he slowly started to be rude with me, his side pressure. He started to feel guilty that he sent his mom with pain.
    People around are cursing him that he did injustice to his mother and that I am also a reason for that. He returned back and went off to
    stay alone in a home with no friends. I understood that he needs space and time, there would not be much reply from him. But somehow
    tried connecting, it looked like except family matters, we are improving on relationship and intimacy.
    Intially he used to say he cant be normal with me as he hurted his mom for me. Then slowly he told he movd alone cause of his relatives pressure.
    Then suddenly once he asked me what I will do, because his people anyhow will not leave him alone and get him married. Then I asked him, are people so powerful,
    because his own mother though did not accept quickly did not push him to such situation of getting married to whom they prefer. He is hard shell, but behind it
    too sensitive and emotional. I tried my best not to nag him more, at time of emotion could not stop it from saying how long we have struggled and
    it is not correct to give up now. Here it is a follow to offer 1st year anniversary prayers with family and close relations.
    He has a married elder brother and his maternal grand mother. He some months back used to say he has only them,
    he cant leave them and come for me, he cannot agree with them and ruin someone else life. I tried to convince him am not asking him to leave anyone.
    But what must I do for them to accept me in their family.
    Recently I was asking him about the rituals dates, if it will it be ok if my family people can join it.
    He was so sharp and rude in response, you know that I cant marry you. I trying to express in all possible manner I am there for him
    always, am ready to leave anything and everything just to live with him. Fight started over in message, I many times told him sorry
    as I was also helpless to decide when we were surrounded by families.
    I also informed him that parents have come for health check up, will he and his family accept me if I lose or be away from them.
    He instantly replied parents are more important than anyone, dont do such mistakes. Then I asked him what else was my mistake
    I dont understand, please accept and forgive for whatever I did. You are more important to me and would come any moment for him.
    After two days of that all sudden, this is the very very first time that he has blocked me on whatsapp. He also exited from a group where my sister,
    me and he used to be there for second time. Thought the group was inactive for the past on year. Few months back I came to know his number change through that group, I fighted in text for that.
    also when we met as usual the ex keep chasing him on calls or messages. He would block and unblock, never attend calls.
    We used to discuss there when we were in normal mode. I sms’d him that if he has gone for the rituals to his native, offer prayers
    to his mom peacefully. Now it has been more than a week, he has not unblocked me. I kept him sms today that he is emotioally hurting both of us,
    I cant live without him, would always love him and be there for him. My mother used to be in good terms with him,
    but after these incidents he responded or met me itself was a great thing.
    His number changes nobody from home got from me or troubled him. They are just waiting for things to get better within ourselves.
    My mother thinks him as a son, and so she is emotionally down to hear the behaviors now he shows up. I dont want to involve elders
    now and complicate again, what more I must do I dont know.
    What is running in his mind what kind of support I must provide I dont know.

  13. Hi Luke,
    In the past I’ve been hurt and I think this is affecting me now.There is a guy with who I am communicating with,for two months now.He is texting me everyday,asking me about myself,my parents,my life in general,he is very curious and kind and honest I belive,he really got my attention.We went out two times,we liked each other.I heard a few things about his past,he was a bit problematic,not in essence of big problems,but you now adolesence stuff with friends and that worried me.However,he told me that part,and he told me that he is a shy person,he holds back his feelings a lot,and he said I am trying so hard to not mess this up,and i feel jealous and I fear of loosing you,and i like you because you always look at the positive side of the things,he said im beautiful and i have a good sincere soul.Our characters seems to be exactly the same,i hold back a lot too and Im mostly in doubt.He always answers sincerely and it matches with his actions,but i just fear.I study nursing and he works he does not study,he now went from being a problematic person to a shy and quiet one.Im in doubt because i want to know him better so I can create something with him later on,something serious not to just pass time.He is very interested to create something with me and he is very careful in what he says,because of the fear of loosing me,but there is something that it is bothering him,i do not know it is like he fears a lot and I do too.I do not want to loose the communication with him either but I have the fear of loosing time and falling in love again and feeling dissapointed again.And I really do not know what to do,i feel like im not in such balance and I am asking too much from him,where in fact i should decide with myself first! Also when we go out,I feel like im not being myself,I feel nervous and scared though i do not show it much.I have everything on track,my studies,my financial life,my friendships,family this is the only part where im indecisive.I think he is a good guy and I wouldn’t want to mess it up either,just because I fear.What should I do? And how to make him open up more so i will feel more sure about where this is heading? And he also told me that his father is very happy that he is talking to me because he knows my family and he knows what kind of people we are, and he also knows that he cannot play with me and has to be very sincere with me.Do you think his efforts are real,or he’s just trying to mess around so he could say that he dated me just to show off! Also,he remembers everything i say,he brings up things that we talked long time ago,and everytime im out he is out to see me, and one day i met a friend and he huged me.Later on he texted me and said I saw the way he huged you,and I felt so destroyed and angry and jealous.He says that he didn’t go out with women much,only 3 and one of his past girlfriends cheated on him so he doesn’t want to talk much about it.Sometimes i want to see him and other times i just don’t want to.It is a mess in my head!! Though i feel comfortable with him,something inside me feels it that he is a good person!. I would like to mention though that I am not a girl who changes guys and it is not something that i want to do so,maybe this is why I fear!.Also he sometimes unknowingly mentions some things like two years or one year earlier about me,when in fact we were not communicating! It is like he knows a lot about me and this confuses me!!!
    Thank you Luke,i appreciate your advices and your thoughts a lot!

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