Not everyone is going to lack compatibility with a clingy person, given that there are people who are used to dating a clingy person, and have had fairly successful relationships in doing so.

Are you someone who has had a history of handling a clingy partner?

Have you had experience in this department?

Assuming you have dated a clingy person in the past, and it ended up being the best relationship you’ve ever had, it isn’t unjustifiable to consider dating yet another clingy person as worth it.

Indeed, there are facets to your own personality that border on being clingy too.

This being said, if you are not into people who are clingy, it is best not to date a clingy person.

It’s tempting to trick yourself into believing that she isn’t that clingy, as you force yourself to focus on her other qualities.

She is beautiful and would look great as a girlfriend on your arm.

She has a wonderful sense of humor or takes risks.

You love that dangerous side of her.

This has you focusing on these elements of her personality, as you ignore the elephant in the room.

That being her clinginess.

Getting into a premature relationship with her after a short period of dating makes you even more delusional, as you get lost in the euphoria of having such a beautiful girlfriend.

As your girlfriend, she doesn’t seem to be as clingy as you once thought she was, or heard that she was.

She seems to be quite independent.

With time, the cracks begin to show.

You have passed that initial stage of dating where you are caught up in the newness of it all as fresh partners.

It is now getting serious, and you are noticing the cracks.

For instance, she asks you about your communication habits.

This is in reference to how you forgot to text her back the other day, or took hours to do so..

She complains about that.

Then she complains about you hanging out with your friends too much.

From here, she is constantly complaining about not having a great day, wanting you to make her feel better.

She now wants to know where you were the last hour, being that she was trying and trying to get a hold of you on the phone and she couldn’t.

These are all signs that she is getting clingy with you.

You observe this behavior, but tell yourself that it is temporary.

You are still latching on to how beautiful she is or how exciting she is to be around.

As time goes on, you realize that there are more and more examples of her clingy behavior.

This is when you start to get worried, unsure of what to do.

Is this the future you have in store or are you going to get lucky?

Is there a chance that she isn’t clingy, or at least, not overly clingy?

Anything is possible.

Nonetheless, if she has a reputation of being clingy and you have sensed it to a degree in her character, you have a decision to make.

You are better off not dating her when you have no history in dating clingy people and knowing how to tolerate such behavior.