When you like his personality but you aren’t physically attracted to him, it’s next to impossible to be with him as a romantic partner.

In essence, you have been around him enough to know how you feel about him as a person.

You do like his personality.

However, there is that persistent issue about attraction.

The one where you aren’t physically attracted to him.

It is highly unlikely that this changes on account of you going on a date with him.

A date isn’t a magic wand that suddenly changes everything.

Yes, you get to learn more about each other and do a fun activity together on the date.

Nonetheless, his looks aren’t suddenly going to change because you are on a date with him.

By the end of the date, he continues to look the same.

His physical appearance isn’t going to change one iota.

You are considering going on this date in the hopes that as the date progresses you develop a physical attraction for him.

Once again, to reiterate, his physical appearance isn’t going to change by the end of the date.

His personality is not going to change either.

He remains the same guy you knew before the date.

He has the personality that you like, but the looks that you aren’t attracted to.

It is unfair to him, and yourself.

This is an experiment that is a waste of time for either party.

There is a reason why you aren’t attracted to him.

You have already experienced his personality and that wasn’t enough to get you to become attracted to him.

Spending a few extra hours with him on this date won’t make much of a difference.

All it does is reveal that much more of his personality that you are already familiar with.

When you are someone who has a proclivity to fall for personality and not looks, this is totally different.

Personality is what does it for you.

If you have had romantic relationships like this in the past, it’s realistic to think that you are going to become physically attracted to him as you are repeatedly exposed to his personality over time.

This being said, if you don’t have a history of getting into these types of relationships, you are better off not going on a date with this guy.

Hoping for attraction to magically appear in these scenarios is futile.

There is absolutely no physical attraction to this guy right now.

This is after having learned enough about his personality.

At this point, it is unlikely that attraction is anywhere on the horizon.

By erroneously going on this date, you are delaying the inevitable disappointment for either party.