I Gave Him An Opening To Ask Me Out. Does He Sound Interested?

A guy that you give an opening to ask you out, demonstrates that he is interested when he asks you out.

I Gave Him An Opening To Ask Me Out. Does He Sound Interested?In asking you out, he is clearly romantically interested in you.

A guy that hasn’t asked you out yet, is not doing it for a variety of reasons.

If you did give him an opening to ask you out and he didn’t take it, this is generally a sign that he isn’t interested in you.

In a context where this is a guy that you have been consistently communicating with, he has no justifiable reason not to ask you out.

In talking to you for this long, he knows your character, and has a gauge for what your are attracted to in a person.

With this knowledge, he shouldn’t have waited this long to ask you out.

He should have asked you out by now.

On the other hand, there are guys who are so immensely shy by nature, or immensely shy with people they are romantically attracted to.

This makes them hesitate to ask a girl out.

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Is he a shy guy or a guy that is shy around you specifically?

To confirm which one he is, watch his mannerisms.

Watch how he acts around people.

When he is extroverted and talkative, he is a guy that isn’t shy by nature.

A guy that likes you but isn’t shy by nature, and is yet to ask you out, is a guy that is worried about the concept of asking you out.

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He is intimidated by it.

He believes that you have given him enough to make him believe that you like him romantically.

In a scenario like this, merely giving him an opening to ask you out isn’t sufficient enough to get him to ask you out.

There has to be a buildup of camaraderie first, where he has gotten to observe your body language and personality.

When you consistently demonstrate extemporaneous body language, he becomes increasingly comfortable with the idea of asking you out.

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With this buildup, he has learned about similar personality traits that he has with you.

This creates a stronger sense of connection in him for you.

A connection that makes him more prone to overcome his shyness around you and finally ask you out.

This buildup of camaraderie takes time and work.

Talk to him about topics that he loves and is passionate about.

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Show him a lot of attention by consistently smiling at him to show that you are acknowledging him.

Be self-deprecating and laugh at yourself as often as you can around him.

This makes you come off as a human being with flaws, like him.

By observing how human you are, he stops putting you on such a high pedestal.

The less he does this, the more real you become to him.

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If he starts seeing you as a regular person, much like himself, he gets comfortable enough to ask you out.

A guy that is shy by nature is shy around people overall, including you.

Although several of the tips aforementioned are helpful in an attempt to get him to ask you out, shy guys are much trickier.

Oftentimes, your best bet with a guy who is shy nature is to ask him out yourself.

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