A defeatist attitude that questions why no one wants you is the reason why people aren’t considering you for dating or a relationship.

With this defeatist attitude, you are condemning yourself to going about your daily life with a negative countenance.

Your body language alone on a daily basis hampers you from getting people to want you.

Ask yourself about what you have to offer to people.

If you have specific aspects of your personality that are dynamic, or specific aspects of your life that are intriguing, you are better off letting them be known.

By keeping all of these hidden, you are indicating that you have low self-esteem.

You are too stuck on how you will be judged were you to show these specific aspects of your personality.

When people struggle to figure you out, you won’t stand out to them.

It doesn’t motivate them to consider you as a romantic prospect.

Come to terms with what you are doing and how you are behaving.

There is no viable path to getting anyone to want you when you haven’t given them a reason to want you.

When you are hiding your talents, they have no idea what they are missing.

People won’t know that you have an amazing voice if you never sing.

People won’t know that you have a hilarious sense of humor by merely looking at you.

The depth of knowledge you have in various interesting topics are unknown to them, as long as you are reluctant to open your mouth and talk about them.

All they see is your negative body language, and it is a turn off.

You have become your own worst enemy, and have condemned yourself to attracting negative energy back at you from people at large.

People at large prefer being around those that have a positive energy.

Being amid positive energy makes them feel good.

On the contrary, someone with negative energy makes them feel bad, causing them to want to run the other way.

These are people who won’t have the capacity nor patience to stick around the negative energy that you give off.

They won’t stick around long enough to discover that there is an amazing person behind the negative body language emanating from you.

First impressions are highly impactful.

In turning people off from their very first impression of you, thanks to your negative body language, it’s extremely rare for any one of them to have the tolerance to give you a second appraisal.

Work on your body language and self-esteem.

Show your strengths, so that people instantly get a reading for the kind of person that you are, and naturally relate to you.

This is how you establish an initial connection with people.

Once you have established this connection, it is much easier for you to find a partner.

Someone that is connecting with you is naturally going to want to learn more about you as a person, and this is where a deeper romantic connection develops.