Your best bet in this scenario is not to act like you have messed it up, so that you don’t lay a bad trap for yourself.

Right now, you are getting too caught up in believing that you have messed it up.

This puts you at risk of jeopardizing the relationship in how you consequently behave.

The truth is, you don’t know if you have messed it up or not with this girl that you are dating.

Right now, you are making an assumption based on an incident that recently happened.

I get it, you are nervous.

You believe that you said or did something inappropriate.

Keep in mind that how you are looking at this incident, isn’t necessarily how she is looking at it.

It’s feasible that you are looking at this incident with two completely different interpretations.

Believing that you messed up doesn’t mean that she believes the same.

It’s dangerous to make unfounded assumptions.

Unfounded assumptions lead to behavior that is defensive in nature.

When you act defensively, you inadvertently make her think that something wrong has occurred within the dynamics of your relationship with her.

She easily misinterprets your behavior, thinking that you no longer like her like you once did.

When you act differently based on the assumptions that you have, you force her to view the relationship as strained and troubled.

This makes her uncomfortable, leading her to no longer want to communicate or hang out with you.

This is why it is crucial that you don’t act out.

If you believe that you messed up, let her be the judge of that.

You will know how she feels about the incident based on how she behaves henceforth.

If you messed up or not, you are bound to pick up on this through her behavior.

Women are innately good at expressing their emotions when there is something that is troubling them.

Rest assured, if you messed up, she is bound to demonstrate her disapproval through her behavior towards you.

This being said, avoid exacerbating the issue by acting out.

Human beings have a tendency to act out when they are playing defense.

This is where we are overcompensating for something.

Unfortunately, the harder we try, the more prone we are to make mistakes.

Steer clear of doing this.

How she handles this incident is left to her.

Although you think you messed up, it doesn’t mean that she isn’t someone who is open to resolving issues.

Let her bring up the issue on her own time.

Don’t tempt fate by continuously bringing up the topic or acting differently.

You have no idea how she is going deal with this.

Give her the opportunity to approach and handle it independently.

It’s feasible that you have blown all of this out of proportion, and she is totally game to keep moving forward with the relationship.

Be cognizant that the negative assumptions you are making about the incident are based on based on negative experiences you have had with previous partners.

As a consequence, you have made an assumption that her reaction is going to be the same as your previous partners.

Be aware that she is a totally separate individual from your previous partners.

Her interpretation of the incident is not certain to mirror that of your precious partners.