You are good at making girls feel at ease when they are around you or talking to you.

This is one of the reasons why girls think that you are a player.

They sense your confidence and how you carry yourself, thinking that you must have girls throwing themselves at you.

You believe that you aren’t a player, considering that you know yourself not to be that confident.

Additionally, you are giving these girls the impression that you can talk to any girl and make her feel at ease, when in reality you don’t feel all that confident inside.

Think about your history of short-lived relationships with girls.

There haven’t been too many meaningful relationships with girls in your life.

A girl who senses that you talk a sweet game, but rarely stick around in relationships, is inclined to think of you as a player.

Sadly, you haven’t had a history of short-lived relationships on account of being a player.

These short-lived relationships were with women who weren’t compatible with you emotionally, intellectually and spiritually.

On the outside, it looks like you are going through girls like toilet paper.

Nevertheless, the truth is, these relationships were short-lived due to a deficit of connection.

If it bothers you that girls keep thinking that you are a player, change their minds about it by developing long-lasting friendships with girls.

You don’t have to only talk to girls that you are attracted to.

Talk to girls that you aren’t too.

An eclectic mix of girls, with varying levels of attractiveness.

In forming relationships with girls of all looks and sizes, you give these girls the impression that aren’t about getting into meaningless short-lived relationships with only girls that you are attracted to.

Rather, you give these girls the impression that you are someone who is open, and cherishes relationships.

Making long-lasting friendships with girls changes minds.

They get to see you in a totally different light from one of being a supposed player.

In addition to building long-lasting and meaningful friendships with an eclectic mix of girls, work on making yourself more approachable.

Your body language is exuding a degree of arrogance.

These girls are reading your arrogant body language as a sign that you believe you are every girl’s dream catch.

Although there are girls who are attracted to an arrogant attitude, there are far more girls who consider arrogance as a sign of a quintessential player.

Making a few changes to your body language goes a long way in making you appear more down to earth.

To do this, quit staring at your smartphone wherever you go.

In lieu of this, make eye contact with girls and smile.

This gives girls the impression that you are approachable and warm, which mitigates any ideas that you are a player from their minds.