A good way to start a conversation with a girl that you just added on Facebook is to ask her questions about her photos.
If you have noticed some interesting photos on her Facebook profile, ask her an intelligent question about one or more of them.
It could be that you are trying to figure out where exactly she was when she took the photo or you may try to find a way to draw a parallel with your own life using said photo.
If you noticed that she took a picture in a familiar location or while performing a familiar task, you could tell her about your own experiences in that exact location or performing that particular task.
This is a way for you to find a commonality with her that could help you create a conversation and make it easier for her to find something in which to relate to you.
Another good way to start a conversation with a girl that you just added on Facebook is to start liking comments that her friends make on her profile and putting insightful thoughts or opinions after you like their comments.
It’s really important that you follow the liking with leaving an insightful or fun and relevant comment.
The more you do this, the more likely she will notice you.
She may begin to read your comments and approve of what you have to say. She may even disagree with them but appreciate the fact that you are respectfully speaking your mind.
This could really make her want to learn more about you. She may feel compelled to start a conversation with you because she simply enjoys reading your insights.
This is a very effective way to get this girl to notice you and even initiate conversation.
Another good way to start a conversation with a girl that you just added on Facebook is to invite her to something that you have organized. Make sure that it is something that relates to what she tends to talk about or post about on her Facebook page.
It could be a conversation that you are having with your own followers about a particular topic that you have also noticed she tends to talk about on her own Facebook page.
You could let her know that on such day and time, you will be discussing the topic with some of your followers and that she was more than welcome to join in along with some of her followers as well if she so chooses.
This allows her to feel a sense of connection with you and also a sense that you are passionate about the topic as well.
It would make her feel like you do take initiative and can lead something.
This is a very strong turn on to girls.
When they know that a guy can lead and express himself, it makes them feel like they are dealing with a confident guy.
Another way to start a conversation with this girl is to start befriending her followers.
Start letting her followers become more and more familiar with you.
Invite them to events on your Facebook page as well.
The more they learn about you and like you, the more willing they would be to tell this girl more about you and put in a good word.
This may eventually open her up to wanting to start a conversation with you.
You also must remember that in order to keep her attention, you do need to have a compelling Facebook page.
If she were to visit your Facebook page and found it to be boring, bare or disorganized, she may lose interest very quickly.
Ensure that you have a fun and exciting Facebook page filled with great photos and interesting conversations with others as well.
This will make her feel like you are social and passionate. This does help in getting her to loosen up and open herself up to you.
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