Confidence can make up for the fact that a girl isn’t great looking, and a great personality is what keeps a a guy interested in a girl, sticking it out with her over time.

Don’t be so quick to disregard your beauty.

Beauty is what instantly attracts a guy.

Even though you believe you are not great looking, you are casting a major judgment on yourself that isn’t warranted.

Not every guy is attracted to the same look in a girl.

You are of the opinion that you aren’t beautiful due to guys giving the so-called “beautiful” girls all their attention and ignoring you.

Know that your interpretation of this is based on the crowd you hang around.

When you are constantly around the same caliber of guys who give their attention to girls who look nothing like you, it’s time for you to expand your social circle.

There are all sorts of guys out there with all sorts of interests.

Don’t put yourself in a box when it comes to the guys you hang around.

Expand your social net and meet new guys who have different interests from those of the guys you are used to being around.

Don’t be afraid to join a group that is centered around a hobby, interest, or course that you love or believe in.

This is when you get to meet new guys who look at your appearance in a totally different way than the guys you are used to being around.

He loves how you look.

When you couple that with your confidence and personality, he finds you to be an irresistible mix.

To reiterate, don’t put yourself in a box.

Have the courage to meet new people and expand your social circle.

You are bound to be surprised when you see how many new guys find you attractive in these new social environments.

Consider are your talents.

What are you really good at doing?

Do you have a knack for speaking languages or doing a physical activity that requires talent?

Do you play an instrument, sing, or have a talent for art?

Let this part of you shine through.

Guys are drawn to people with talent.

Although you believe you aren’t great looking, an artistic connection with a guy makes up for that.

Be mindful of the character of men that you have been attracted to in the past who didn’t think you were great-looking.

Guys like this have a tendency to solely care about physical appearance, and this is never a good sign for you.

This awareness keeps you from getting upset about your looks.

You are looking for substance in a relationship.

These guys who are all about looks don’t possess the substance you require.

What you want in a partner matters too.

You are of value and there is no reason why you shouldn’t raise your standards.

Focus on guys who aren’t all about outward appearances when it comes to what he is looking for in a mate.

When you get into a pattern of befriending guys who look for substance in who they choose to date, you are bound to attract them to you.