Be careful that you don’t let how you feel about her get the best of your reasoning.
Believing that she is an amazing girl is your sentiment.
It is not necessarily the sentiment of guys at large that she has encountered.
You believe that she is amazing, given how she responds to you, and how you find so many similarities in your characteristics.
She has a way about herself that transcends the norm, coming off as irresistably likable and pleasant to be around.
She is a lot of fun, and when you interact with her, you are the most special person in the world.
These are the moments you have had with her.
Although this has been your experience with her, it isn’t certain that other guys she has been around has had the same experience.
These are guys who saw their time with her as nothing to get excited about.
To them, she isn’t amazing.
What they consider to be amazing is totally different from what you consider it to be.
You look at her humor as an amazing trait.
A guy who has been exposed to the same humor thought nothing of it, regarding it as bland.
You have heard incredible anecdotes from her about an adventurous past, and this made her that much more amazing to you.
A guy hears the exact same anecdote coming from her lips and concludes that he has heard it before, and there is nothing new to learn, or get excited about.
You see, there is what you are experiencing whenever you are engaging with her and the how you interpret it, and what other guys are experiencing with her and how they interpret it.
You and these guys are getting exposed to the exact same stimuli from this girl, but translate the stimuli in totally different ways.
You love the stimuli that you have been exposed with her.
She is hitting all the right buttons.
Consequently, you are led to believe that she is amazing and wonder why she has never had a boyfriend.
A different guy has the opposite mindset, believing the stimuli he has been exposed to from her hasn’t done anything to spark his interest romantically.
Different guys have difficult reactions to the same stimuli.
What works for you isn’t sure to work for them.
This is why it is better to judge her based on the effect she is having on you, rather than the effect you think she should also be having on others.
Her personality is the right match for you, which makes her amazing to you.
That being said, her personality isn’t always a right match for everyone else.
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