A guy would text a girl he wasn’t interested in, and he does this for various reasons.
There is someone else that he wants to be with romantically, and he knows you are friends with this person.
He texts you to find a way to get more information about her, or win you over as his friend.
If he can win you over as his friend, he hopes that you mention him to your friend in conversation, putting in a good word for him without knowing that you are.
Besides this, a guy would text a girl he wasn’t interested in so as to keep her as a dating option.
Now, don’t get excited.
It’s not what you think.
He doesn’t have an immediate romantic interest in you.
Yet, he continues to text, wanting to keep you on the back burner as a dating option.
You become a number.
Your importance to him is low on the totem pole.
Should things not work out with Betty, Angela, Barbara, Emily, or Denise, they have you as a sixth or seventh option.
It’s rare they get that far down on their priority totem pole.
In the event they get this low, you are nothing but someone who is low on the totem pole that is keeping them company until Betty or Angela gets back into the picture.
He has his eye on his top five choices, and the moment one of them becomes available, or is keen to give him a chance, he drops you and goes for her.
A guy like this has a tendency to text a girl to build his circle of female friends.
He wants to have a greater number of female friends to bolster his social appeal.
The more female friends that show up with him at a social event, the greater the attention he gets from a variety of women at the event.
These women look at him as more of a catch when they see all the female company he has shown up to the social event with.
They wonder why he has these women all around him, and what on earth makes him so special and dynamic to garner all that attention.
All of a sudden, they are psychologically and physically drawn to this guy.
Yes, there are a number of reasons why a guy would text a girl that he isn’t interested.
To determine whether this guy is interested in you, your best option is to observe how quickly he asks you out, or how often.
If he doesn’t ask you out at all, or does so sporadically, and yet continues to text you, he has ulterior motives that have nothing to do with being interested in you romantically.
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