She wants to have the benefits that come with being in a relationship, without the commitment.

You mislead yourself when you latch onto the thought that she isn’t letting you go because she wants a relationship in the foreseeable future.

As you become increasingly emotionally invested in her, you keep making yourself believe that a relationship is imminent.

Her continuous reluctance to let you go keeps you in this funk, latching on to the hope that she is going to get so comfortable with you, she is bound to ask for a relationship in the foreseeable future.

This is so deceiving and time-consuming.

Never fall into this trap, like so many people do.

They wait and wait and wait on someone who has no intention of ever giving them what they want, a relationship.

They get encouraged that she talks to them, and acts like she is into them.

This behavior from her is misread as a sign that she wants to be in a relationship with them sooner or later.

Do not be misled by her behavior, enabling your emotional desire to be in a relationship with her to get the best of you.

If she wanted to be in a relationship with you, she would be in a relationship with you right now.

She wouldn’t act like she cares, only to keep you guessing.

Staying in this constant state of hope that she is bound to want to be in a relationship with you, makes you susceptible to being hurt over and over again.

The longer you stay in it, the harder it is for you to let the dream go.

Each passing day arrives with the desperate hope that she finally acquiesces to getting into a relationship with you.

You count the days, monitoring every word she tells you, and every gesture she displays.

You talk to your friends about what they think about every word she says that hints at a relationship.

A number of those friends encourage you to stay at it, falsely misreading what her words meant.

Unfortunately as time goes by, she is still not getting into a relationship with you, and you begin to wonder how much longer it is going to take.

She seems like she has been responding to you in such a positive way of late.

Then that unfortunate day happens.

This is the day you discover that she has started dating someone else.

She breaks the news to you with such happiness.

Now you are left with all these unresolved feelings.

She is happy and you are not.

You have been waiting all this time for her, as she wouldn’t let you go, and now, she is seeing someone else.

This is how this situation turns out for so many people, and you don’t want to be the next one.

Don’t let her take up your precious time.

Let her go, and move on with your life without looking back.