Whoever Has The Better Job Should Ask Out And Pay Then?

Share This Post

No.

This is not about who has the better job.

This is about getting to know each other better.

You should approach the date with this frame of thinking.

When you are so concerned about the fact that the other person has the better job and they should do the asking out and paying, you will forget the whole point of this.

Your intent should be to get to know this person.

Your focus should be in creating a healthy atmosphere in order for you to interact.

Need Advice? Click Here For A Consultation.

You don’t have to go on an elaborate date to create this kind of atmosphere. You don’t have to look at this as some kind of competition that requires someone to blink first.

EliteSingles.com

The first person who blinks will have to do the asking out and yes, since they have the better job, they should pay too.

This is a very defeatist approach to dating and may result in you having multiple failures because you are sticking to some kind of belief system.

50 Ways To Get A Girl To Chase You – Get This eBook For Only $9.99

Have A Question? Click Here To Ask The Q&A Forum.

If you find her attractive and would like to get to know more about her, you shouldn’t allow yourself to get so caught up in whether she has the better job and what that would entail as far as the dating process is concerned.

Bear in mind that most girls aren’t going to initiate either.

She isn’t going to ask you out as often as you would hope, even if she knows that she has the better job.

What are you going to do now?

Need Advice? Click Here For A Consultation.

Are you just going to keep waiting on the sidelines in the hopes that a girl will eventually ask you out?

EliteSingles.com

You could be waiting a long time and perhaps indefinitely.

You will have to go for what you want in order to get what you want.

Sticking to some kind of belief system about who makes more and what this entails when it comes to asking a person out could really damage your love life.

50 Ways To Get A Girl To Chase You – Get This eBook For Only $9.99

Have A Question? Click Here To Ask The Q&A Forum.

Your task is to focus on making this be an enjoyable and easygoing process.

As I mentioned earlier, you don’t have to have an elaborate date. A simple meeting for a chat at a coffee shop or walk in the park can be a date.

Does it really matter who does the asking if you know that you really want to date this girl?

Need Advice? Click Here For A Consultation.

Why wouldn’t you go for what you want when you know that this is a person that you really want to get to know?

EliteSingles.com

You may believe that you would refrain from asking her out because she has the better job and you believe that this means she should do the asking out, but this may be a poor excuse for what is really going on in your head.

You may be afraid.

You may be afraid that she won’t like you or she will tell you no.

You may be worried about how that will depreciate your sense of self-worth.

50 Ways To Get A Girl To Chase You – Get This eBook For Only $9.99

Have A Question? Click Here To Ask The Q&A Forum.

In other words, you are scared of failure.

Well, you will have to get rid of this kind of attitude if you hope to be successful in dating.

Dating is taking a chance.

If you aren’t willing to take a chance and would rather give some kind of excuse so as to put the onus on the other person to do the asking out, you may be waiting on the sidelines for a long time without a date or a relationship.

EliteSingles.com


Related Video

Do Girls Expect The Guy To Pay For The Date?


Consultation

I offer three forms of consultation.

Consultation through Skype, Phone and Email.


Skype

If you want to Skype, my rate is $1/min.

Minimum payment required is $30 for a 30 minute session.






Phone

If you want to talk over the phone, my rate is $1/min.

I take both local (United States) and international calls.

Minimum payment required is $30 for a 30 minute session.






Email

If you would rather email me with a question, I have a flat rate of $15.






Related eBook

50 Ways To Get A Girl To Chase You

Getting into a girl’s head is just one of the ways to trigger a chase. Get all 50 ways and you will never have to chase a girl again.

Price – $9.99

Click the button below to Buy and Download.






Q&A Forum

Thanks for visiting.

If you have a dating or relationship question, the forum would be glad to help you.

Click here to ask a question.


Luke

Luke

Luke is a relationship consultant and founder of DatingLogic.net. He is the author of several insightful and eye-opening eBooks about dating and relationships.
Luke

Latest posts by Luke (see all)

Share This Post

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *