Whoever Has The Better Job Should Ask Out And Pay Then?

Thinking about who should be paying for the date from a perspective of who has the better job is setting yourself up for failure.

Whoever Has The Better Job Should Ask Out And Pay Then?The idea of a date is to get to know each other better.

Approach the date with this frame of mind.

When you are so concerned about who has the better job, in terms of who does the asking out and who pays, you forget the whole point of this.

Your intent should be to get to know this person.

Creating a healthy atmosphere for you to interact with each other is what matters.

You don’t have to go on an elaborate date to create this atmosphere.

This is not a competition that requires someone to blink first in regards to who asks for a date and who pays.

Using this approach is defeatist, and results in multiple failures as a consequence of sticking to an erroneous belief system.

If you find her attractive and would like to get to know more about her, don’t get so caught up on whether she has the better job, and what that entails as far as the dating process is concerned.

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Bear in mind that the majority of girls aren’t going to initiate either.

She isn’t going to ask you out, irrespective of having the better job.

What are you going to do now?

Are you going to keep waiting on the sidelines in the hopes that a girl finally asks you out?

This is going to be a long and indefinite wait.

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Go for what you want, to get what you want.

Sticking to an erroneous belief system that whoever has the better job is responsible for doing the asking out, and paying at the date, doesn’t do you any favors.

Rather than lose yourself in this belief system, focus on making this be an enjoyable and easygoing process.

You don’t have to have an elaborate date.

Meeting for a chat at a coffee shop or taking a walk in the park are sufficient date ideas.

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Does it matter who does the asking if you know that you want to date this girl?

Why wouldn’t you go for what you want when you know that this is a person that you want to get to know?

Believing that she has a better job, and waiting on her to ask you out, is a poor excuse for what is going on in your head.

You are afraid that she won’t like you or will tell you no.

You are worried about getting rejected and how this would depreciate your sense of self-worth.

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In other words, you are scared of failure.

Get rid of this attitude if you hope to be successful in dating.

Dating is taking a chance.

If you are unwilling to take a chance, and would rather put the onus on the person with the better job to do the asking out, you are going to be waiting on the sidelines for a long time without a date or a relationship.

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