I Love A Girl And She Loves Me, But She Doesn’t Want To Be In A Relationship With Me

This girl doesn’t love you as much as you have been led to believe, if at all.

I Love A Girl And She Loves Me, But She Doesn't Want To Be In A Relationship With MeIt is easy to make yourself believe that she does.

Love has a tendency to make a person so euphoric, they create stories in their minds that aren’t realistic.

You tell yourself that she loves you, being that she smiles at you, or she talks to you regularly.

This has led to you believing that you must be special, given that she doesn’t act in this fashion with anyone else.

Your conversations with her are so amazing and so full of depth, you believe that the connection must be real, and can’t imagine it any other way.

How your brain works when you are in love is incredibly misleading.

The brain emits a lot of dopamine, which is a neurotransmitter that causes euphoria.

Once you get too much of this chemical reaction in your brain, you get carried away in making yourself believe that there is a love connection with her.

Unfortunately, this love connection isn’t as deep as you think it is, if it exists at all.

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With this much euphoria, you are hoping that she feels what you feel.

You want this feeling to be mutual.

You stifle out all reason so that this euphoric feeling that you are having isn’t interfered with, or contradicted.

This is how people react when they have too much dopamine released in their brain.

Be aware of what is going on inside your body and how it obfuscates reality.

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Even if she told you that she loves you, it’s not improbable that she meant she loves you as a person.

In other words, she cares about you as a person, based on a friendship connection.

Meaning, she doesn’t love you romantically.

Think about your current predicament.

She doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

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What does that tell you?

That means that she lacks the depth of romantic interest required to date you.

The conclusion is clear.

She only sees and loves you as a friend.

Friendship is misconstrued as romance far too frequently.

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This is what happens when one party loves someone else, and tells themselves that their object of affection must feel likewise.

Look back at the nature of the relationship you have had with her so far.

How often does she ask you to do an activity with her one on one?

Does she ask you about your previous romantic girlfriends or whether you have a girlfriend?

Does she ask about what you find attractive in a girl?

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Is she telling her friends about how amazing you are?

If she doesn’t do any of these things, she doesn’t see you as a romantic prospect.

No matter how long you stick around, hoping that she eventually comes around to this thinking, it’s highly unlikely she does.

Accept the bitter reality that she doesn’t love you and move on.

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