Keep a guy’s attention by showing how multifaceted you are as a person and as a date.

When you are one note, a guy gets bored easily and you lose his attention.

In knowing what to expect from you, he becomes a lot less energetic and consequently gives up on giving you his attention.

He wants to be excited about talking to you or hanging out with you.

It’s monotonous whenever he is with a girl who brings up the same topics and wants to do the same activities.

This leads to boredom and you lose his attention.

Keep your time with him fresh.

Engage in a different activity each time you hang out with him.

Even though you aren’t that well-versed in some activities, open yourself up to doing them.

Make it an experience that you share with this guy for the first time.

Be consistently adventurous with the activities that you engage in with this guy.

The more keen you are to be adventurous and change up your activities, the more unpredictable you become.

This works well in keeping a guy’s attention, as it makes him wonder about what is coming up next.

He wonders about what activity you are going to have him engage in with you this coming weekend.

This means that he is looking forward to the weekend.

You clearly have his attention.

Change up the topics you talk about.

Each time you talk to him, you should share a new story about yourself that he isn’t aware of.

Tell it to him in a funny way, or in a way that makes him curious to learn more.

You have already experienced some life before you met him.

Use your life adventures as a guide to come up with topics.

Go back into different scenarios in your life that you have faced.

Find the most engaging ones and talk about them.

Telling him something new about yourself, or your life experience every time you converse with him, gives him a new nugget into who you are as a person.

Letting him get a little piece of you each time keeps his attention.

The mistake that a lot of girls make is in giving a guy everything too quickly.

She shows all her cards by giving away too much of her life and personality in the early stages.

Soon after, she has nothing left to share and the guy gets bored and she loses his attention.

You shouldn’t be like that.

Keep a guy’s attention by showing your independence.

When you are too clingy, you give him less motivation to want to be with you.

Have your own separate life that you are living.

Once he fully digests that you have an independent and exciting life, he wants to become a full part of it.