If your boyfriend is leaving his things at your place, he may be trying to show you that he is thinking about this relationship in a serious way and he is letting his guard down even further.
This is especially true if you notice that he is leaving things at your place that you know he will miss.
If he is leaving precious and important items at your place, he is showing you that he is beginning to trust you even more.
This doesn’t always mean that he is looking to move in with you but it does tend to mean that he is getting very fond of you.
Also, he may want to ensure that you think of him when he is not around. This may be because he does think about you quite often when you are not around him.
When he leaves his things at your place, he may want you to have that reminder whenever he is not around.
He may want you to call him and tell him what he left just so that he knows that you noticed.
Hence, you could be dealing with a boyfriend that is trying to send a number of messages by leaving his things at your place.
He is trying to show you that his level of trust for you has grown. He is way more comfortable with you now than he has ever been. He is also trying to ensure that you remember him when he is not around by leaving those items.
He likes the fact that when you notice that he left his watch behind, you remember him.
He likes the fact that when he leaves his sweatshirt behind, you may be reminded of him and even give it a sniff just to smell his scent.
He knows that he thinks about you on a regular basis when you are not around and he is going about his day and he is hoping that by leaving his things at your place, you will think about him too.
Now, one of the best ways to tell that he actually wants to move in with you is in what he tells you.
He will typically drop hints in conversation.
If he has an apartment lease that is coming to an end of its term, he may start asking you about whether you think he should renew the lease.
If you notice that he has brought up this topic quite often, there is a chance that he is trying to gauge where your mind is.
He may be hoping that you tell him to move in with you.
Also, if he often talks about how he is tired of his roommate and wishes he had another, this could also be a hint that he is trying to gauge your opinion on moving in with you.
Another good way to tell that he may be wanting to move in with you is when you notice that he tends to conduct a lot of his personal business around where you live.
Perhaps he begins to take his laundry to the laundromat that is close to where you live or he begins to eat at the local mom and pop restaurant that is around the corner from where you live.
Perhaps he starts to build relationships with the people in your community such as your neighbors or even your mailman, knowing several of them by name.
When you notice this kind of behavior, there is a good chance that he has gotten really comfortable with you and your lifestyle and is trying to send you hints that he wants to move in with you.
He may hope that one day you simply ask him whether he wants to move in or at least drop hints in conversation that you want him to.
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