A guy that tells you that he is falling for you, is indicating that he is opening himself up to the idea of a romantic future with you.
He doesn’t love you quite yet.
There is a part of him that is getting emotionally attached to your personality and how you make him feel.
He sees you as someone he wants to spend a good amount of his free time with.
When a guy is falling for you, he has entered a different stage, having gone from initial physical attraction to something deeper.
There is more substance in how he goes about socializing with you.
He knows that he is no longer solely focused on your physical appeal, but is now intrigued by your personality and your charm.
This is the stage where he thinks about you more on a daily basis.
He thinks about you more than he thinks about most things, and opens up his schedule or reshuffles it to get to talk to you.
You are now becoming a priority to him.
He wants to know what you are up to and how you are feeling on a regular basis.
He is actually beginning to care.
He talks about you to his friends or work colleagues with greater frequency, and asks their opinion on something you said or did the last time he talked to you.
All of a sudden, his relationship with you is no longer about meaningless banter or flirting.
Things are a far more substantive now.
He fervently cares about what you think about a distinct issue, wanting to determine whether you are of the same opinion.
He is hopeful you share the same opinion about it, but even if you don’t, he is open to looking at the issue from your mode of thinking.
This is what a guy is going through when he is falling for a girl.
So, for now, he likes you.
He is looking at you as someone he would have no trouble bringing around his friends and family.
Notwithstanding, he isn’t quite ready to take the full plunge into the relationship.
He needs to get a little bit more conversation out of you before he decides it’s time to make this relationship official, or ask you on a date.
Also, when he is falling for you, he cares about knowing whether you are talking to anyone else romantically.
This is when he is asking you questions about who you are dating or if you are dating anyone.
He does this to ascertain whether he has to worry about competition or whether the road is clear.
A guy like this is the most susceptible to falling in love with the girl soon after he gets into an official relationship with her, as the seeds of love had already been planted prior to the relationship.
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