When To Call A Woman After A Second Date That Went Well

A optimal time to call a woman after a second date is about a half hour later, but you should avoid going beyond twenty four hours.

When To Call A Woman After A Second Date That Went WellCall to confirm she got home alright or got to whatever destination she was headed to after the date safe and sound.

It endears you to her and it makes her feel like you care.

You get to gauge her level of excitement.

In answering right away, she has been waiting for your call and jumped on it when it came through.

In not answering, but calling you right back, she is showing a strong sign of interest too.

All of these moves show that she enjoyed the second date.

A girl who enjoyed the second date is keen on going on a third date.

Keeping this in mind, this phone call is your opening to set up another date with her.

She is fresh off the high of the second date and would be more open to making this third date happen.

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These are the moments that are so crucial after a second date.

Some guys mislead themselves by thinking that the longer they wait to contact the woman after the second date, the better they position themselves to get a third date.

They falsely believe that the woman would be more primed and desperate to hear from them the longer they make her wait.

Unfortunately, these men have been taught or shown wrong.

The first twenty-four hours after the second date are the most crucial.

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This is the period where you are in the best position to get in contact with her and get her to agree to a third date.

The second date went splendidly and she remains on a high from it.

She is excited about going on a third date with you.

When you give it a week or more before you call her, she has had an entire week or more to not only get off the high, but also wonder or fret over why you haven’t called her.

She is doubting whether you had a good time at the second date and want to see her again.

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She asks herself where she went wrong.

You have thrown a lot of doubt in her mind, along with anxiety.

All that doubt and anxiety eventually gives way to resentment.

She feels annoyance setting in, being that to some extent she believes that you weren’t being honest about how you felt about that second date.

She feels annoyance due to a sense of arrogance on your part for keeping her waiting.

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Arrogance works on women when used in light to medium doses.

That being said, when you keep her waiting for weeks, you have taken things too far.

By the time you decide to call her, she has already deleted your number from her phone and moved on mentally.

Supposing she agrees to the third date, she does so with a lot of anxiety and uncertainty.

When she is this uncertain, she terminates the date by coming up with an excuse as the date draws closer or on the day of.

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She does this after moments of self-reflection and discouragement from friends, who convince her not to follow-through on a third date with you, due to your previous behavior.

You never want to get her to this position, as you are better off calling her within twenty-four hours of your second date.

Calling her a half hour after the second date to see whether she got to her destination alright is that much better.

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