When you are entranced in getting a guy to like you back, you lose yourself, and this is precarious.

With an overwhelming desire for a guy, it’s natural that you develop an intoxicating hunger to get him to like you back.

You want so badly for this guy to like you back that you do about anything to make it happen.

Sadly, you fail to realize that not every guy is going to like you, irrespective of whether you like them.

This is how it works in life.

You can’t always get what you want.

You feel one way about a guy, but he isn’t necessarily inclined to feel the same.

You ponder, and ask yourself why this is.

There is a belief that the chemistry and compatibility is all there.

Your mind is creating stories in your head about what it would be like to be with this guy.

You get so involved in all these emotions that you don’t see that there are guys who will like you and guys who won’t.

For one thing, it’s feasible that this guy isn’t physically attracted to you.

Yes, I know that people tell you that you are pretty all the time.

Nevertheless, this particular guy isn’t feeling likewise.

There is a look that he prefers that you don’t have.

Don’t assume that every guy will find you attractive.

He isn’t prepared to date you, as he doesn’t feel any compatibility with you.

Even though your conversations with him have been pleasant and fun, he considers them platonic in nature.

There is an energy that he was expecting that he didn’t get from you.

As a result, he doesn’t feel any compatibility with you.

Now, all this being said, there are ways you can get a guy to notice you and consider dating you.

Finding a commonality with him is one.

Finding something that you relate to facilitates in getting him to feel a connection.

It could be in anything from art to goals or even a life philosophy.

Help him when he needs it.

In other words, be his friend.

Don’t be afraid to help him overcome a temporary problem.

For instance, his car is in the shop and he needs a ride to the gym or someplace.

Offer to give him one.

While you are at it, start a conversation and get to know each other better.

If you are also a gym person, ask him whether it is alright to work out with him from time to time.

If he agrees, these moments at the gym are prime opportunities to build rapport.

Let’s say you learn that he loves photography and needs assistance with a set-up over the weekend.

Offer your assistance.

Should you know nothing about photography, be inquisitive as you help him with the set-up.

This is how you bond.

The more you bond and you are helpful, the more dependent he is on your company and energy.

This is a very effective way to get a guy to consider the prospect of dating you.