Eschew letting your experience so far in terms of pursuing a crush, get the better of your rational judgment.

You are justifying why you have such bad luck with your crushes.

In reaction to it, you make yourself believe that your feelings of despair and sadness are true.

You make yourself believe that you should never pursue any crush that you might have in the future.

This is how you are reacting to disappointment over your last crush or your last several crushes.

The failure of those relationships should not be used to justify why you should now guard your feelings.

Your feelings can be deceiving, being fueled by emotion.

That emotion is disappointment.

Your mind is now trying to find ways to protect yourself from future disappointments.

You no longer want to experience the pain and frustration of it all.

This leads to a desire to stop trying, stop pursuing, and just give up.

In life, there are going to be disappointments.

Everything is not always going to turn out the way you want.

What makes all of this so interesting is that it is through these failed experiences that you can learn and grow as a person, as well as in your future relationships.

Instead of placing all your focus on how you can go about protecting yourself from being hurt in the future by not pursuing a crush that ends in disappointment, focus on learning from your past experiences.

There is a distinct method in which you romance a crush that hasn’t worked and yet you keep doing it.

It is the topics you choose to talk about in conversation or the places you choose to go with this crush.

It is the people you put this crush around or the way in which you use your body language to convey romance.

Make changes to all or some of this to get different results.

This is a big part of what life is all about.

Learning from your past experiences and making adjustments accordingly enables you to grow as a person and in your relationships.

This is why you need to have an objective eye and avoid getting so overwhelmed by your current feelings.

You do want romance in your life at some point don’t you?

Become proactive in being the best person you can be and learn from your past experiences.

There is nothing wrong with making mistakes or picking the wrong person to have a crush on.

This is part of the learning process of life.

Take these mistakes or missteps and make the most of them by learning from them.

This keeps you from dwelling in your negative feelings and making yourself miserable.