Your boyfriend isn’t making time to talk to you, worried you would bring up a specific topic that he doesn’t want to talk about.
When a guy doesn’t want to address an issue, he avoids it by cutting back on communication.
Think back to what has been going on in your relationship.
Is there something that you have both been having a hard time dealing with?
Your boyfriend has been having certain issues that you have been working on addressing with him.
If he hasn’t come out with his reasons for why those issues are occurring, he is procrastinating.
Your boyfriend doesn’t spend enough time with you or tends to ignore your side of family and friends, primarily wanting to do things with his side.
He rarely takes you out on dates like he used to or he is always unenthusiastic to try out an activity that you love.
Whatever the issues have been of recent, you have been letting him know about them or attempting to talk about them.
A guy who doesn’t want to address these issues unequivocally, avoids them.
This is when he starts to avoid making time to talk to you.
Each time he feels the need to talk to you, he stops himself, knowing that you are going to bring up these issues.
He doesn’t want to deal with these issues right now, knowing he is expected to come up with an answer or resolution.
He wants to ignore them and as a result, he keeps avoiding making that time to talk to you.
There is a part of him that is convincing himself that he intends to make that time.
That part of him is his conscience.
His conscience knows that it is the right thing to make time to talk to you and is telling him that it is imminent.
In the meantime, he procrastinates and delays.
Something else to consider is the possibility that he isn’t taking his relationship with you seriously.
He believes you are more emotionally invested in this relationship than he is.
Knowing this makes him reluctant to make time to talk to you.
He knows that every time he does this, he makes you that much more emotionally invested or involved in the relationship.
He wants to keep this to a minimum and avoid the possibility that you fall too deep and too hard for him, while he doesn’t feel the same for you.
There is a part of him that believes that as long as he doesn’t make the time to talk to you or keeps that time at a minimum, you won’t fall for him and put him in a position where he has to reconcile his own emotions in comparison to yours.
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