To go about getting a second date with the girl you like, you should ask her out on a second date.

You have been reluctant to do this, unsure on whether she enjoyed her first date with you.

Notwithstanding, you should ask her out on a second date.

This is one of the best ways to know for sure how she felt about that first date and whether she likes you enough to want to go on a second date with you.

I know that you are probably anxious and nervous about all this.

Sitting around and wondering about what it would be like to go on a second date with this girl doesn’t make it magically happen.

Girls like guys who are assertive, and take action.

Pondering and not taking action doesn’t make you look appealing.

At this moment, as you read this article, she is wondering why you haven’t asked her out on a second date.

She is sitting around wondering whether she did something wrong on the first date that turned you off.

She is asking her friends for advice.

She wants to get their insight on why they think you haven’t asked her out on a second date yet.

Most girls are passive in the initial stages of dating.

They typically want the guy to do the asking and be the aggressor.

You don’t have all the time in the world.

If she enjoyed that first date and wants to go on a second date with you, she has now been waiting for some time for you to ask her out on that second date.

However, she won’t wait forever.

At some point, she comes to the conclusion that you didn’t like the first date or you aren’t interested in her.

When she makes this decision, her mind is on track to moving forward and letting you go.

Once this frame of mind settles, it is hard for her to retract.

This means that regardless of whether you finally ask her out, she has lost interest and moved on from you mentally.

She tells you no or comes up with an excuse not to go on that second date.

It is too late.

You waited too long.

Besides, since that first date with you she has had several other guys ask her out on dates and they weren’t shy about asking for a second date afterward.

Your opportunity with her has now passed due to your inaction and competition from other guys.

This isn’t the place you want to be.

Go ask her out for a second date today.