Although your heart is in the right place, joining a sorority in university is not necessarily going to get you a boyfriend.

Thinking that joining a sorority is all you need to do to get one is unhealthy.

The reason for you joining a sorority should not be centered on using it to find a boyfriend.

This impedes you from getting what you want.

When you go about it like this, you are solely in it for what you can get for yourself.

You aren’t wholeheartedly in the sorority for wanting the experience.

Now, it is true that joining a sorority does open you up to meeting more guys.

Sororities have fraternities that they are partnered with.

Guys show up at the sorority houses for parties or invite the sorority girls to parties at their fraternity houses.

Many people in sororities and fraternities are passionate.

They have a passion for the organization.

They are into it for the long term and make sacrifices to ensure they are a productive member of the group.

Without this mentality, you don’t reap the full benefits of being part of a sorority.

You are ultimately miserable in knowing that you joined the sorority for the sole purpose of finding a boyfriend and that hasn’t happened yet.

All you have met so far have been guys who just want to drink and party.

Where are the quality guys you ask?

Where are the guys that I can actually see as a boyfriend?

Where are the guys who are boyfriend material?

Well, you don’t get to be around guys like this until you have been a good sister and team player to your sorority.

Oftentimes, these kind of guys won’t show up until you have earned some seniority and goodwill in your sorority.

This is when other sorority sisters begin to put in the good word for you.

This is when other sorority sisters begin to vouch for you.

This is when other sorority sisters start introducing you to the really quality guys that are in their network of friends.

When these sisters have seen that you are real and there for the long term.

When they have observed your passion for the sorority and your keenness to participate and be a true team player.

It is difficult for you to ever get to this point when your entire reason for joining a sorority is to get a boyfriend.

The right body language and attitude is missing on your part.

The sisters have trouble trusting you or vouching for you.

The only guys you have access to are the ones who get drunk at every fraternity or sorority party.

These guys aren’t boyfriend material.

Get into the sorority for the right reasons, not selfish ones.

This gives you the best shot at finding a boyfriend.

You get to grow as a person due to new experiences and a bond of sisterhood with your sorority.

These qualities help in getting you to one day meet the right guy, a future boyfriend.